ROMANCE

What ever happen to the days of romance and where are all the good God fearing men? I believe todays man has forgotten the true meaning of a woman's worth nor does he appreciate the love that is given. to find a man that does is truly wothy of being called King in his household.

when a man becomes one in today's world with a woman, it is no longer called beautiful it is called sex. Please post your thoughts

All i know is men have the same problem finding Godly women. They just publicize their feelings about it less. Personally, as a man, constantly hearing from women complaining about how bad all the men are, it gets somewhat demoralizing. Its almost abusive in nature to constantly hear this. Because how else am i to take this except that i'm not 'Godly enough'. or good enough? Sometimes it feels like i will always be single because i will always been seen as not good enough in womens minds. Not 'Godly enough' because i haven't 'arrived' spiritually. I think of myself as a generally decent guy, a spiritual guy, and someone who is always working on trying to grow and improve, but that seems not to be good enough.
Seems to me women would be better served complaining less about men, and instead encouraging them. And perhaps the women spending more time ensuring that They are as Godly as the man they seek. Because, as stated, many men seem to have just as much trouble finding Godly women, they just voice the complaint less.

Its difficult enough to understand eachother as humans. We all need encouragement.

I think there are more God fearing men out there than you think. There may be a lot of guys out there who are just looking for the next fling, but grouping all men together and knocking them all down for the sake a couple bad experiences is not the way to build morale. I heard a pastor put it this way. If you are putting someone down, the only way to push them down is by going down with them. Your hurting no one but yourself by making comments like that. You lose all hope for a possibly beautiful future if you stake your life on it.

Just because a guy may do stupid things and make some (or even a lot) of mistakes does not mean he doesn't fear God. Try to look for the good in others, and not focus on the negative. Some of our greatest strengths are found in our weaknesses.

My thoughts are that it really doesn't matter what the world calls it; as redeemed souls through Jesus we should follow His guidelines and only sleep with our spouses and try to get the worldly people to change BY TELLING THEM ABOUT THE PEACE WE HAVE IN JESUS AND THAT THEY CAN HAVE IT AS WELL, not by saying how horrible their lifestyle is; they are lost and shouldn't be expected to act righteously. The CHURCH needs to hold itself to a high standard, but as far as the world goes, they acted badly in yesterday's world as well; they just hid it better because it wasn't socially acceptable to talk about sex cavalierly.

I think we see so much unreal romance in life that it discourages people especially women. I'm talking about movies and media. Often times are expectations are high, for some people so high that it's impossible for most people to reach them. If I expected my husband to behave the way some shows portray how a man behaves in a unreal relationship I would be disappointed and if expected me to make those goofy faces they make in Victoria Secrets commercials he would be disappointed. I find it romantic when he vacuums. lol

Ah yes, romance. I remember it well. Its sweet memory lives within me. The beauty and the splendor of love. When two hearts meet and gaze into each others eyes. I remember taking walks in the gentle Spring rain or under the dim moonlight on a warm Summers night. I remember hving relaxing cadle light dinners as the cool breeze would blow in through the window. Romance is slow like a dance where a man puts his hands around a womans waist and she puts her arms around his shoulders moving slowly together to the sweet sound of music. The gift of romance is such a blessing. The sweet captivating smell a
of a woman in the air like flowers in bloom. The gentle touch of her hand and the power in his embrace. Growing together through the years sharing this life together. Ah yes, romance. I remember it well.