Suppose you want to travel in a certain direction, by mistake you take the opposite direction. Once you realize you take the wrong direction, you have to stop and return. If you keep on going, the farther you go, the harder it will be for you to return. Similarly, when things go wrong in our lives, the first thing we need to do is stop, listen and wait for God's direction. If we try to make corrections by our own strength and wisdom, we are liable to make more mistakes. If things go wrong in your life, stop, think, listen and return to God. Don't try to do anything, just wait for the Lord untill you become calm, cool, meditative and organized.