even though this is a christian site I can tell that I'm already getting judge here..

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I know people judge others naturally but when someone claims to be so Christ like you kind of wonder why are they judging you! I'm a different and unique person, I am often misunderstood for that, but I can understand why the world may judge me but not people I consider God fearing I don't know maybe I'm wrong or just see the world differently. However there are some great people on here who I think genuinely care for others. I really thank you! People should feel encourage and feel loved. I really think it's beautiful for people to reach out to the lost and hopeless! Everyone needs prayer these days everyone is going threw something.
 
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Bate

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Thanks for the appreciation HopeForever!
Let me hope there's nothing specific that happened to you.
 
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Ugly

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Is it really a big surprise? Jesus himself had to deal with religious, judgmental people. Humans, Christian or not (or just claiming to be) are just humans at the end of the day. Some try to grow and improve, others believe they have already 'arrived' and that that gives them the rights to be jerks. No matter what label a person applies to themselves as long as you gather a group of people you're going to have all types, good and bad.
 

blue_ladybug

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I know people judge others naturally but when someone claims to be so Christ like you kind of wonder why are they judging you! I'm a different and unique person, I am often misunderstood for that, but I can understand why the world may judge me but not people I consider God fearing I don't know maybe I'm wrong or just see the world differently. However there are some great people on here who I think genuinely care for others. I really thank you! People should feel encourage and feel loved. I really think it's beautiful for people to reach out to the lost and hopeless! Everyone needs prayer these days everyone is going threw something.

​Everyone is different and unique in their own way. It seems people like to hold us to a higher standard simply because we are christians. No matter whether a person is saved or not, whether they are christian or catholic, you're gonna encounter people who will judge you. It does not matter what others think of you or how they judge you, because ultimately only GOD can judge you. :) You've only been here for one day--give it some time..There are alot of great people here. :)
 

JesusLives

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I know people judge others naturally but when someone claims to be so Christ like you kind of wonder why are they judging you! I'm a different and unique person, I am often misunderstood for that, but I can understand why the world may judge me but not people I consider God fearing I don't know maybe I'm wrong or just see the world differently. However there are some great people on here who I think genuinely care for others. I really thank you! People should feel encourage and feel loved. I really think it's beautiful for people to reach out to the lost and hopeless! Everyone needs prayer these days everyone is going threw something.
I joined a year ago an two weeks after joining what I thought would be fantastic Christian love fest fellowship someone called me a Judaizer.....I'm like What is a Judaizer? Had no idea what one was so how on earth could I be one? Weren't these people suppose to love me? Were we not all supposed to be on the same side? I had to have a talk with God about this and decided that I needed to make my responses as close to what Jesus would make a response to and not to take things so personally as if anyone attacked me it wasn't really me they were attacking but Jesus.

I joined the site for the right reasons, to have Christian fellowship and to get to know more like minded Christians and I can honestly say that during this year I have met some very wonderful people on this site. Not all of us agree with each other but as in a large family not all the family members will agree all the time either. There has been a little bit of name calling and I might have gotten my feelings stomped a time or two, but the over all fellowship is worth hanging around for. So keep your eyes on Jesus and don't let any of us get to you as we are still all human and we aren't perfect and transformed yet.

I believe the goal of most on the site is to end up in heaven living with God, Jesus and Holy Spirit, we are just all on a different rung of the spiritual ladder we even have a few atheists that like to hang out here and they are a joy to associate with at least I have found that to be the case and who knows maybe at some point they might change their minds and decide there is a God after all. So welcome to CC as it is a most entertaining place to hang out and make new friends.
 

Fenner

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I chalk a lot of the name calling as being on the internet. Most of the name callers eventually get banned. Some use the internet as a shield and say things I bet they'd never say to your face, at least I hope not.
 

JesusLives

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I chalk a lot of the name calling as being on the internet. Most of the name callers eventually get banned. Some use the internet as a shield and say things I bet they'd never say to your face, at least I hope not.
Maybe we are more mature than some of these name callers ya think? lol
 

Fenner

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Maybe we are more mature than some of these name callers ya think? lol
I certainly do Jesus lives, I also think neither one of us would purposely go out of our way to hurt someone else, internet or in person.
 

Blain

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Hopeforever sadly yes there are many judgmental people there are also many judgmental Christians and name callers and hypocrites who claim they are Christians but are anything but. However if you need someone to be able to talk to and be honest and open with without being judged you can always talk to me. I have spoken with people whom a lot of Christians would see as filthy sinners and I never judged them I showed them the same love and encouragement as anyone else. I mean these were some people who did horrible gross things and they were being judged by many on this site but I made sure they knew they were loved and that I didn't see what they saw because I knew how God saw them and I could see they needed to see how precious they were to God.
 

tourist

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​Everyone is different and unique in their own way. It seems people like to hold us to a higher standard simply because we are christians. No matter whether a person is saved or not, whether they are christian or catholic, you're gonna encounter people who will judge you. It does not matter what others think of you or how they judge you, because ultimately only GOD can judge you. :) You've only been here for one day--give it some time..There are alot of great people here. :)
You are right. I would give it at least two days.
 
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jordie

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"If anyone says "I love God" yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen." (1 John 4;20)

"And he who has given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother." (1 John 4:21)

There should be no room for judgement here. We came here for love and fellowship and if we are condemning others, we should not be here. This post breaks my heart.
 
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FaithfulLadybug

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I know people judge others naturally but when someone claims to be so Christ like you kind of wonder why are they judging you! I'm a different and unique person, I am often misunderstood for that, but I can understand why the world may judge me but not people I consider God fearing I don't know maybe I'm wrong or just see the world differently. However there are some great people on here who I think genuinely care for others. I really thank you! People should feel encourage and feel loved. I really think it's beautiful for people to reach out to the lost and hopeless! Everyone needs prayer these days everyone is going threw something.
We are all different. Like a field of flowers or different fruit trees, all different but each wonderful. Clones aren't fun. So, as they say... viva la differance! I'm new here also, and have been 'different' all my life. Yeah?... so?... ;)

And I agree with JesusLives... a wise woman indeed.

I joined a year ago an two weeks after joining what I thought would be fantastic Christian love fest fellowship someone called me a Judaizer.....I'm like What is a Judaizer? Had no idea what one was so how on earth could I be one? Weren't these people suppose to love me? Were we not all supposed to be on the same side? I had to have a talk with God about this and decided that I needed to make my responses as close to what Jesus would make a response to and not to take things so personally as if anyone attacked me it wasn't really me they were attacking but Jesus.

I joined the site for the right reasons, to have Christian fellowship and to get to know more like minded Christians and I can honestly say that during this year I have met some very wonderful people on this site. Not all of us agree with each other but as in a large family not all the family members will agree all the time either. There has been a little bit of name calling and I might have gotten my feelings stomped a time or two, but the over all fellowship is worth hanging around for. So keep your eyes on Jesus and don't let any of us get to you as we are still all human and we aren't perfect and transformed yet.

I believe the goal of most on the site is to end up in heaven living with God, Jesus and Holy Spirit, we are just all on a different rung of the spiritual ladder we even have a few atheists that like to hang out here and they are a joy to associate with at least I have found that to be the case and who knows maybe at some point they might change their minds and decide there is a God after all. So welcome to CC as it is a most entertaining place to hang out and make new friends.
A question please... (not to be controversial or hijack this thread), but I need to ask, because I truly don't know... what is a Judaizer? I've never heard that before (either).