Unhappily Married

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Hapa76

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Aloha... I'm 38 years old and have been married for 8years. I'm extremely unhappy, unloved, over my head & a single mother. I have a 16yr old daughter and 13yr old son from my 1st marriage. Together we have no children. My husband at one time was a good role model to my children and we became a little family, we dated a few years before we married and He just loved all of us and being a part of us. Over time he constantly expressed having a hard time excepting my children and being a parent like figure. I work a very part time job and recv child support weekly as my income. He pays the house and I pay bills, food, toiletries, car maintenance & gas for my car, and all the needed for my children. He has 2 cars which he takes top notch care for like spending hours washing & waxing his car and I pay for car washes,,, the list goes on and on. I'm pretty happy and comfortable being unhappily married but when he goes into bully mode abt paying everything, not having the money to do things he wants, paying for children that aren't his and he wants a divorce it makes the situation turn sour and uncomfortable. I know God has a bigger better plan for me and I need a little help keeping my faith!
 
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JustinFromTwinCities

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Hello Hapa76, that must be quite difficult. It can be very hard being married to someone who can seem to "turn" on you when things don't go a certain way, especially when threats start being thrown around. It can make us feel so powerless, so hurt. I am by no means an expert on anything, and I do not claim to know your situation nor exactly what you should do. But if you want, you can read about my own story (I'll put the link down below) and just maybe you can gain something from it. A new perspective or insight, i don't know but I can only speak from my own experiences and feelings. Others may have other wisdom for you.

http://christianchat.com/christian-family-forum/107049-non-christian-wife.html
 
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Hapa76

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JustinFromTwinCities said:
Hello Hapa76, that must be quite difficult. It can be very hard being married to someone who can seem to "turn" on you when things don't go a certain way, especially when threats start being thrown around. It can make us feel so powerless, so hurt. I am by no means an expert on anything, and I do not claim to know your situation nor exactly what you should do. But if you want, you can read about my own story (I'll put the link down below) and just maybe you can gain something from it. A new perspective or insight, i don't know but I can only speak from my own experiences and feelings. Others may have other wisdom for you.

http://christianchat.com/christian-family-forum/107049-non-christian-wife.html
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Well thank you for the understanding. Your link caught me off guard and at first I felt insulted. My husband has actually said that to me and my eyes did a double!
 
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butterfly712

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Hello and welcome,I hope you enjoy it here. :)
 
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