Lady36, We always want to encourage people to share, It is good you have set the example..smile! God bless you and welcome. I have that redo attitude too, I have three kids and I am having to reboot my software , as it were. But it is good to have you in a safe place to gather yourself and gain love and encouragement from fellow Christians, the brothers and sisters in Christ are a blessing.. So welcome feel free to ask any questions you may have. And we have a divorce and separated group going too so check out all the variety of options here. Young adults etc etc..