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cass14

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I really need some advice on a situation I'm in.. I have felt for a God is trying to get rid of things in my life that shouldn't be there. I think that includes my relationship with my boyfriend.
 

PopClick

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If your boyfriend isn't a Christian, then I think that you're right - you need to break things off. It won't be easy, I'm sure, but the longer you wait, the harder it will be. I will pray for your heart and your comfort. :( Talk to God about how you feel, and try to "give" Him your sadness. Hugs, sis... it isn't easy but I KNOW you can do it! And you'll probably be glad you did after a little while.

P.S. Welcome to cc! :)
 
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cass14

Guest
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I live with him. He has drinking issues.. i have no car. And no place to go.. he has a good heart and im afraid if I leave it will destroy him. He faces possibly going to jail.. things are a mess and my nerves are shot..
 

jsr1221

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I live with him. He has drinking issues.. i have no car. And no place to go.. he has a good heart and im afraid if I leave it will destroy him. He faces possibly going to jail.. things are a mess and my nerves are shot..
You shouldn't stay with someone because you're afraid they'll fall off the rocker if you leave them. Scripture is clear on non Christian relationships. I pray for your situation as well and that God directs you in what to do. Welcome to CC and I hope you enjoy it here.
 
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cass14

Guest
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I know what i have to do.. Guess i need to take a leap of faith.. thank you
 

blue_ladybug

Senior Member
Feb 21, 2014
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I really need some advice on a situation I'm in.. I have felt for a God is trying to get rid of things in my life that shouldn't be there. I think that includes my relationship with my boyfriend.
Hello and welcome to CC.. I agree with PopClick, your boyfriend needs to go. Feel free to make a thread in the Family forum about it, since the new members forum is only meant for introducing yourself. :)
 
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bluebirdchaser

Guest
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You're welcome here. I just wanted to know I'm praying for you. I can only imagine what a hard choice that must be for you.
 

MartyrNdaMaKn

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Praying for you, that God will shine his light on your situation and give you the guidance you seek.