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sissy_real

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Hello everyone, I am really struggling after seperation due to husbands addiction to painkillers. My insurance is paying for his maintanence drug suboxizone. He left our home and entered a relationship with another woman. His family blames addiction and failed recovery on our relationship. He is not doing the steps or counseling just taking drug that curbs withdrawal symptoms and increases libido. I am so hurt and want to take him off insurance so he can be responsible for his own recovery. I am struggling whether this is anger/spite or the right thing to do. I am encouraged to take him off by everyone. He hadn't treated me very well in the past year and a half. We lost our home. What hurts the most is he is doing things he never would do what he is doing now for me. I am devastated, he says he isn't coming back due to past conflict and hurts. I have my faults for sure but have diligently supported him and his attempts with recovery. I appreciate anyone who has experience with this type of situation providing input. I have been with him 12 years prior to this. Thank you
 

blue_ladybug

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Feb 21, 2014
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hello and welcome to CC. This forum is only for introducing yourself, but I want to encourage you to post this in the ladies forum. :) Not many people come into the new members forum, and you will receive alot more replies and advice in the ladies forum. :)
 

santuzza

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Feb 12, 2013
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Actually, you may not be able to post this to the Ladies Forum yet, but try the Family Forum.
 
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sissy_real

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Thank you so much.
 
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bluebirdchaser

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You're welcome here. I believe there will be people who can relate. I hope we can support you here.