43 yr old going through a divorce

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hutch

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I'm 43 and my wife left me on Jan 4th and I don't think she wants to reconcile today is our Anniversary and I am not taking it well. I've been up since 230am and at work and really don't want to be here. I miss her and our 3 year old son. Who I only get to see 2hrs and 30 minutes a week
 

PennEd

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I'm 43 and my wife left me on Jan 4th and I don't think she wants to reconcile today is our Anniversary and I am not taking it well. I've been up since 230am and at work and really don't want to be here. I miss her and our 3 year old son. Who I only get to see 2hrs and 30 minutes a week
Hello Hutch! Welcome to CC.

I'm terribly sorry to hear of your situation. I can sense the pain you are in. I really don't have any words to say about your marital problems except to remember Romans 8:28 Romans 8:28New International Version (NIV) [SUP]28 [/SUP]And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who[SUP][a][/SUP] have been called according to his purpose.

We can't always see what His purpose is in some of the things we go through, BUT we have HIS promise that it is for Our good. He loves you, your brothers and sisters in Christ love you. Trust in Him. Lean on Him, and REST in Him.

Dear heavenly Father I ask that you ease the worries, and down feelings of this man, and let him feel Your Presence in his life. Please work in his relationship with his wife and son. In Jesus Name I pray.
 

tourist

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I've been there and done that too, Hutch. It's a shame that these things happen. We can only make the best of the situation and then move forward with our lives. I hope that you find this site supportive of what you are going through. Believe me, you are not alone. Welcome to CC.
 
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Church2u2

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Hi Hutch. Welcome to C.C. I'm sorry about your situation and I'm not an expert on relationships but I am a person who believes in prayer.. And would like to offer to include you in mine if that's okay with you??
 
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Speaking from experience you're going to have to fight for your child. Get a child family therapist involved who is reputable in custody disputes and get the court to ensure that your child sees them on a regular basis. This will insure accountability from both you and your wife as well as support to your child during the transition. Tell your lawyer that you want a graduated parenting plan that eventually becomes equal time with both parents. Every court in the land now recognizes the importance of both parents having equal parenting time. This is about the well being of your child now.
 
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hutch

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Thank you every one. I need lots of prayers. Please keep praying for me. It being our Anniversary dose not make it any easier.
 

blue_ladybug

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Thank you every one. I need lots of prayers. Please keep praying for me. It being our Anniversary dose not make it any easier.

Welcome to CC. There is a prayer requests forum here. Also, your OP is more appropriate for the Family forum, where all the other threads like this are. I can ask a mod to move this there for you. :)
 
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Colt45Bullet

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@blueladybug Can you please stop policing the forums and where they should go? The mans life is being ripped apart at the seams. Give him some sympathy, please.
 
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wanderermish

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Hello Brother
Welcome here to Cc .

God Bless :)
 
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Rosesrock

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Ugh I'm sorry. I have no words but I will pray for you.
 
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So how are u and are u still singgle? check my profile..