Marriage seperation

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Elexus19

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My husband abandon's me and our son when things get hard, no major arguments. he has walked out on us at least 15x in the past year and comes back when he wants because he know I love and will be waiting for him. Basically I'm a advantage. This time there was no argument, he was smiling, faked like everything was great with us but he got in the car and left to another country. My son and I were supposed to go with him but he left us and blocked all communication with me. His parents influenced him to leave. That it wasn't Gods plan for us to be married. What should I do. I gave this situation to God but I need answers.
 
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paul6267

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Give it to God and let him deal with your husband and his parents. In the mean time do what you need to do to provide for you and your son. Lean on your faith, keep moving forward no matter what happens. If he wants to come back you need to make sure there are ground rules. Marriage counseling, couples counseling, etc. Make him show his commitment to you, your son, your marriage and your faith life. In short don't make it so easy for him to come back, make him work for the relationship.
 
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Elexus19 said:
My husband abandon's me and our son when things get hard, no major arguments. he has walked out on us at least 15x in the past year and comes back when he wants because he know I love and will be waiting for him. Basically I'm a advantage. This time there was no argument, he was smiling, faked like everything was great with us but he got in the car and left to another country. My son and I were supposed to go with him but he left us and blocked all communication with me. His parents influenced him to leave. That it wasn't Gods plan for us to be married. What should I do. I gave this situation to God but I need answers.
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If he is committing adultery, you could divorce him. Otherwise you might consider telling him not to come back.
 
resurrection33

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Elexus19 said:
My husband abandon's me and our son when things get hard, no major arguments. he has walked out on us at least 15x in the past year and comes back when he wants because he know I love and will be waiting for him. Basically I'm a advantage. This time there was no argument, he was smiling, faked like everything was great with us but he got in the car and left to another country. My son and I were supposed to go with him but he left us and blocked all communication with me. His parents influenced him to leave. That it wasn't Gods plan for us to be married. What should I do. I gave this situation to God but I need answers.
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resurrection33 said:
If he is committing adultery, you could divorce him. Otherwise you might consider telling him not to come back.
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Also, you might post this on the Christian Family Forum, where more people will see it.
 
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NicoleWilliams

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You’re travelling an incredibly challenging road, Elexus19, and I am so sorry to learn about your husband’s behavior. It’s definitely a frustrating situation. I agree to what ‘paul6267’ said, give it to God and let him deal with your husband and his parents. Also, I would recommend Christian counseling – it’s always good to have a support system. I will certainly be praying for you, asking God to be with you during this difficult time and surround you with His perfect love. You stay strong and take care of your son, okay? Hugs!
 
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