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R
Thank you for your kind response
My wife is just not "Feely Touchie" at all. Maybe you are, and that approach would be effective for you. But, it is a turn off for her.
Yea, we talk about it from time to time. I accept her the way she is and she accepts me just the way I am.
No, I'm not catholic. I'm not a Christian anymore but sometimes I wish I was, and could talk to god about it.
I was only expressing some hurt feelings for a minute. I'm not really that angry in general.
When I was young I foolishly abided by everything the "Church" told me to do. And even encouraged others to do the same.
I didn't think things out for myself and take responsibility for my own decisions. I was a puppet on a string.
Now, as a mature adult, I regret that!
My wife is just not "Feely Touchie" at all. Maybe you are, and that approach would be effective for you. But, it is a turn off for her.
Yea, we talk about it from time to time. I accept her the way she is and she accepts me just the way I am.
No, I'm not catholic. I'm not a Christian anymore but sometimes I wish I was, and could talk to god about it.
I was only expressing some hurt feelings for a minute. I'm not really that angry in general.
When I was young I foolishly abided by everything the "Church" told me to do. And even encouraged others to do the same.
I didn't think things out for myself and take responsibility for my own decisions. I was a puppet on a string.
Now, as a mature adult, I regret that!
Do what GOD wants you to do, not what the fallible "church" tells you to do. You act like you're missing out on sex, like it's some great wonder drug or something. It isn't.. You're doing God's will being celibate. And some day He will say to you, "well done, my faithful soldier". Isn't God's praise worth more than a few romps in the hay?
R
Thank you!
But, like I said before, I'm not a Christian anymore and not doing "gods will" or hoping for gods praise.
Past all that stuff, I realize that your view is different than mine and we disagree on spritural values.
If I could do it all over again (obviously I can't) I would do it all differently. And would probably agree with you and your views.
But, like I said before, I'm not a Christian anymore and not doing "gods will" or hoping for gods praise.
Past all that stuff, I realize that your view is different than mine and we disagree on spritural values.
If I could do it all over again (obviously I can't) I would do it all differently. And would probably agree with you and your views.
Well then I don't know how else to help you.. You're wishing you had sinned before marriage, and we both know that's wrong, sooo.. But we all live with regrets, stuff we should have done, or not done, or said or not said.. You aren't the only one who has regrets. And certainly not the only one who has a longing for sex..