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lyza15

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[FONT=&quot]My husband left me. Until now he still would not admit about the affair and I know for a fact that they are already open to the OW's co-workers. He is making me look bad to his family. He always lies. He does not care who he hurts as long as his image is clean. He is very selfish. He does not want get an annulment. I told him that he should be open about this since he was the one who left, and he was the one who did not want to fix the marriage. He says that he still thinks of me everyday and that he would not be the same without me. We only have minimal communication and we have not seen each other for 3 weeks. He is currently living in his parents house since his parents would not allow him to leave. Is there still hope for our marriage? It is so hard. Please help me.[/FONT]
 
resurrection33

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lyza15 said:
My husband left me. Until now he still would not admit about the affair and I know for a fact that they are already open to the OW's co-workers. He is making me look bad to his family. He always lies. He does not care who he hurts as long as his image is clean. He is very selfish. He does not want get an annulment. I told him that he should be open about this since he was the one who left, and he was the one who did not want to fix the marriage. He says that he still thinks of me everyday and that he would not be the same without me. We only have minimal communication and we have not seen each other for 3 weeks. He is currently living in his parents house since his parents would not allow him to leave. Is there still hope for our marriage? It is so hard. Please help me.
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I can only respond to the information you have provided us. He sounds like a first class jerk (that’s the nicest way I can think of to put it), and I would suggest you’re well off to get rid of him.

However, you still seem to like him – I’m not sure you’ve told us everything. So you will have to do what your heart tells you to do. If you love him, try to hang onto him, but it sounds like he doesn’t want to come back, so at some point you likely will have to move on without him.
 
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KJ4G

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I'm sorry about your situation. I imagine it is very difficult and painful. He sounds a lot like my ex husband, who was a narcissist. In the end I divorced him, because he wasn't willing to work on it and cheated and lied and was abusive. I can only say that there is always hope in a marriage, if both partners are willing to work on it. I would encourage you to both seek counseling and in your prayer life ask God for guidance, wisdom, and help. It's a tough burden to carry alone...also reach out to others at church and ask for prayer and support. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
 
Dino246

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Hello and welcome. :)

I would encourage you to tell your story in the Family forum. Lots of pray-ers and helpful advice to be found there. :)

Welcome to KJ4G too!
 
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