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I admire your perseverance, and love.
You are right - your husband does need God!
The first step is your love and faithfulness to him.
This is not a guarantee of success but you are likely his only credible witness to the grace of God.
You are the one who is in the situation right now, and so obviously, you need to evaluate the situation.
If you feel in danger yourself, or for your children, I would not stay though.
I just want to encourage you and remind you that God both knows and understands your situation.
The hand of grace is extended.
Let us know how you go...
You are right - your husband does need God!
The first step is your love and faithfulness to him.
This is not a guarantee of success but you are likely his only credible witness to the grace of God.
You are the one who is in the situation right now, and so obviously, you need to evaluate the situation.
If you feel in danger yourself, or for your children, I would not stay though.
I just want to encourage you and remind you that God both knows and understands your situation.
The hand of grace is extended.
Let us know how you go...
I'm sorry for the pain you are going through. I know what it feels like to go through infidelity within the marriage. I also know that prayer works. You may not see a change overnight but prayer changes situations and the hearts of people. I'm praying for GOD to give you strength and for your husband to restore the trust lost.
I'm sorry to hear this. Your discovery must have been devastating yet you are "fighting" to restore your marriage. God will honour you. Many couples are able to recover from infidelity and can develop a stronger relationship with more intimacy and closeness.
I encourage you to speak to a Counselor or a Pastor. Both you and your husband will need to do this individually and as a couple. You both need to understand the motivation underlying the affair. (this is no way justifies his behaviour) but it is important to allow him to speak openly and to understand "why?"
Also, pray; for yourself and for him. It won't come easy to pray for him, but I believe that in due season, God will allow your prayers to be "arak" (Hebrew-directed) in the strategic way to bring about victory.
God Bless
I encourage you to speak to a Counselor or a Pastor. Both you and your husband will need to do this individually and as a couple. You both need to understand the motivation underlying the affair. (this is no way justifies his behaviour) but it is important to allow him to speak openly and to understand "why?"
Also, pray; for yourself and for him. It won't come easy to pray for him, but I believe that in due season, God will allow your prayers to be "arak" (Hebrew-directed) in the strategic way to bring about victory.
God Bless
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Hello, thank you for your kind words. I feel I'm in such a tough spot. I am no longer loving because of his behavior towards me. This is a man that doesn't touch me doesn't say nice things to me always road blocks my ideas, thoughts or opinions. I'm at loss with him. There's no danger to me or my kids but his lack of attention, affection is killing me. I tried so hard the first year and it's like he took me for granted the whole time. I pray daily for Gods will to be done in my life and for him to kill the fleshly desires to be loved by my husband. I just want to take care of my kids and serve the Lord.