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MissTJLove

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Hi Im TJ, separated pending divorce- my husband had a child outside of our marriage and I am prohibited from being around the child by the mother & my husband is required to only be around the child around her mother, I have been unable to conceive & unable to find it in my heart to forgive him & remain in this hurtful marriage, so here I am ♥️, I am open to dialogue, love God, travel, family, friends, academics, food lol, dancing, concerts, I just Love Life!!!
 
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NoNameMcgee

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I'm sorry you had to go through all that....

but it's great you're still able to find joy in God


welcome to CC

and i hope this place is a blessing to you TJ
 
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MissTJLove

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#3
@NoName thx so much, yes Gods promise & his Love keep me going & Im glad I found this forum
 

tourist

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What your husband has did to you is reprehensible. Not only was he unfaithful to you but now he is on the hook for child support, money that could otherwise could be used to maintain your household. This is going to hurt you financially. A man that loves his wife does not even think about cheating on her let alone actually do it. The trust he betrayed can never be restored. There are others here that are in similar situation so please know that you are not alone.

My counsel is to file for divorce and start making plans to move forward without that anchor (husband) around your neck dragging you down with him.

Hopefully, you will find comfort, support and understanding from the members of this site. Glad to have you as part of our family. Welcome to CC.
 
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MissTJLove

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#5
Amen & thank you @Tourist! I have already filed and the finalization is pending, Im excited & anxious about no longer being married & being "out here" uncovered, but I KNOW & trust that my GOD has me covered on ALL sides. Again Im truly grateful to have found this community of Believers
 
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SweetmorningDew78

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Hello :) Welcome to CC sis :) hope you will like it here :)

Good morning and God bless you ❤
 
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joefizz

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#7
Welcome here you can discuss with bible smart people and possibly make new friends,hope you like it here!
 
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girljoe

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#8
Having had a difficult time conceiving I can understand how painful that must be. You said you are not able to find it in your heart to forgive him and I understand that, but forgiveness is as much for you as it is for him. You will never feel like forgiving him, you will never want to forgive him, there will never be enough time that passes that you will make you feel differently. However, if you choose to forgive him -- and whether you forgive him or don't forgive him is a choice that you make -- God can heal your pain and pour out His blessings upon you.

So now that I've sounded like some recorded version of an ancient revival sermon, I gotta tell you the whole forgiveness thing is the truth. The greatest healing and the most growth in my relationship with God I have ever experienced has come thru forgiving others. It's not easy. Holy goodness, it's not easy.

I wish you many blessings as God unfolds His plan for you!
 
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joefizz

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Having had a difficult time conceiving I can understand how painful that must be. You said you are not able to find it in your heart to forgive him and I understand that, but forgiveness is as much for you as it is for him. You will never feel like forgiving him, you will never want to forgive him, there will never be enough time that passes that you will make you feel differently. However, if you choose to forgive him -- and whether you forgive him or don't forgive him is a choice that you make -- God can heal your pain and pour out His blessings upon you.

So now that I've sounded like some recorded version of an ancient revival sermon, I gotta tell you the whole forgiveness thing is the truth. The greatest healing and the most growth in my relationship with God I have ever experienced has come thru forgiving others. It's not easy. Holy goodness, it's not easy.

I wish you many blessings as God unfolds His plan for you!
In ancient times girl joe gave advise and it was wise.
Then she met Joefizz and he liked her post and said he agreed with her post.
lol hello girl joe I'm Joefizz good advice!
 
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girljoe

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#10
Hi Joefizz! I love it when someone thinks my humble advice is wise. I love it even more when someone gets my quirky humor because that is indeed rare. Thank you!


In ancient times girl joe gave advise and it was wise.
Then she met Joefizz and he liked her post and said he agreed with her post.
lol hello girl joe I'm Joefizz good advice!
 
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joefizz

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#11
Hi Joefizz! I love it when someone thinks my humble advice is wise. I love it even more when someone gets my quirky humor because that is indeed rare. Thank you!
I'm here nearly all the time so you'll certainly see me popping up and saying something funny or silly lol,glad to meet you!