Marriage

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Hi I just recently got married 5 months ago and I found out my husband has been talking to another woman and giving her money on the side for months. This lady texted me through Facebook messenger and when I confronted him about it, he lied about the whole thing. She even sent me screenshots of all the transactions and other naughty messages that were sent to her. He even said that they were all photoshopped, which I don't believe at all. As a Christian, I don't believe in getting a divorce. It's just hard to be with someone that has been hiding things behind your back while you're doing everything to be a great spouse. All trust is lost at this point. Has anyone ever experienced something similar to my situation??
 
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Gracie_14

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umm, no, because i've never been married or i should be at this point. i dont think your husband was really committed to you in the first place. it appears this woman in his life was in his life for sometime probably before you guys got married. its really so sad to here this though. i cant really say anything else because of no experience.
anyway, the forum you posted is for new members to introduce themselves. this type of thing belongs to the family forum. but… otherwise… welcome to CC! :)
 

Angela_s

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Firt of all, Hi and welcome here !

DeterminatedBeing, I feel sorry to disappoint you, but this is a forum section just for introductions.

If you want help with your marriage, you should post this on the ladies's forum section.
 
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joefizz

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Welcome here you can discuss with bible smart people and possibly make new friends,hope you like it here!
 
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Hi I just recently got married 5 months ago and I found out my husband has been talking to another woman and giving her money on the side for months. This lady texted me through Facebook messenger and when I confronted him about it, he lied about the whole thing. She even sent me screenshots of all the transactions and other naughty messages that were sent to her. He even said that they were all photoshopped, which I don't believe at all. As a Christian, I don't believe in getting a divorce. It's just hard to be with someone that has been hiding things behind your back while you're doing everything to be a great spouse. All trust is lost at this point. Has anyone ever experienced something similar to my situation??
Get a divorce. He obviously has no intention on being a husband and building a life with you. Peel the bandaid off fast and chalk this up as a learning experience. Was your relationship God honouring prior to marriage? Using the Bible as an excuse to remain committed to this selfish bastard is just setting yourself up for a lifetime of heartache and disappointment. She told you about their relationship so you would dump him and he would go to her. Sounds like they deserve eachother. Usually the first year of marriage is the honeymoon stage, falling helplessly in love. It gets harder in the years to follow. Careers, kids, money, whatever...just end it.
 

Bebe11

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I hope you will post this on the other forum. It will be a long road back to trusting your husband, but it can be done. Your husband will need to agree to cut off all communication with this other woman. If he truly loves you, then he will do whatever it takes to help you feel secure and trust him again. You might both need to attend marriage counseling. I pray that you and your husband will get the help you need to have a healthy marriage. Wishing you the very best!