Goodbye CC

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tiredmary

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thanks CC for everything, thank u for giving me the chance to meet such great lovely blessed people from different countries, thank u for having such blessed people that talk about god in such a great passionate way.
i am leaving here because of some reasons:
1= some people think that this site is just for meeting people or date people. they pm me and starts asking about my age or if i am in a relationship and that disturbs me
2= this is a main reason why i am leaving this site is that some people are FAKE , they act assif they are really christian and follow god in a great way... but the truth is they are exactly the opposite , they just want to get more attention by others , i am not judging them i'm just saying the truth.

so god bless u all my friends i really love you...
 
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LovesBrokenDream

Guest
#2
I haven't really been around long enough to talk to you, but I'm still sorry to see you go. May God bless you in all that you do in life. :) Take care of yourself!
-Sammi.
 
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tiredmary

Guest
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thank you sister :) god bless you too dear :) tc
 
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james86

Guest
#4
Never have talked to you in the main or anything but sorry to hear you want to leave. There is always going to be those people in a christian site and there's no way really to solve it but keep moderators on the issue. Have you brought this to their attention?

God Bless you,

James
 

Mrdll

Senior Member
Jan 15, 2011
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Well Tired, you have some good points here. However, not everyone here is the same. Yes there are those who are fake. Some you can see a mile away, while others are more sutle and harder to see. Yes, there are those who think this is a good place to date and can get out of control really fast. However, you'll find the same kind of people in every church throughout the world!

I have never met you on here that I know of but I am sorry to see you go. There are some REAL people on here too who would love to see you stay. The others you refur to need a lot of prayer and confronting! Maybe on the mod level. Please don't let few bad apples cause you to throw away the whole bushel.

One other thought is that maybe, just maybe you caught someone on a bad day. We all have them from time to time. Any way, I hope you will reconsider and choose to stay and give the rest of us a chance to felowship with you.

God Bless you no matter what you deside to do. Hope to see you around here more.
 
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tiredmary

Guest
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actually i didn't know how to contact with the moderators... god bless you james :) tc
 
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james86

Guest
#7
If there is a person in the room that is red you can pm them anytime with any concerns because they are a moderator. Please don't leave tiredmary :( we want you here sister.
 
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tiredmary

Guest
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it's hard for me to take such as this decision and then move backward assif i didnt do anything ,,, i think i should think about it once agian
 
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jimsun

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Hi TiredMary; I have only joined CC fairly recently &am sorry we've never had the opportunity to talk. I am so sorry for your experiences here & equally sorry you feel you have to leave CC. There are many good folk here & I am sad
that a few bad apples can spoil the whole barrel.
We can never budget for those using the site of for different purposes than it's intended one but our site officials have a thankless task policing us.
I hope that, rather than leave completely, you will take time out to reflect on how you feel, log in once in a while just to say hello & perhaps return in the new year.
Think what Jesus would have done - He certainly wouldn't have let CC's "abysses" win!
Nollaig Shona Duit & Athbhliain faoi Mahise Duit.
 
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james86

Guest
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Glad to hear that tiredmary please pray on it and ask for guidance.
 
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LynnJ

Guest
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I hate to see you go, tiredmary, although I have not had a chance to meet you yet. It is true that there are fake people everywhere, online and in person, but there are so many wonderful people here and I've made some good Christians friends during the two and a half years I've been a member of this site. If you do give CC Chat another chance, I hope that you are able to meet some of the genuine Christians who hang out here. And feel free to send me an email message or PM in the chat room. I’m always up for meeting new friends.

P.S. I, too, have had a few problems with PMs from men (despite my “married” status), and I’ve had to block a few of them. But I now have a Private Chat Notice that pops up when anyone PMs me, which says: “No private chat from men, please, unless I know you well. Thanks.” That has cut down the number of unwanted PMs dramatically. You can create a Private Chat Notice in the Edit Options tab of your Control Panel. And you can always report repeat offenders to the mods.
 
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Tobby17

Guest
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Ugh i think men will always be men..

Plus if you leave CC because you feel there are fake christians here, then that's like a waste of time coz you'll still meet so many fake christians outside there. Moreover it's the christians from outside who join this side..

Plus i think if you really wanted to leave, you won't make this thread and continue replying.. So there we go, you still love CC :p :p :D :D
 
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AnandaHya

Guest
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i don't know I love cc. you just have to forgive the fake people. ignore or report the pushy stalkerish guys and get to know and be friends with those who really are worth getting to know and hope and pray and allow God to transform us into who He wants us to be and forgive every day.

I believe knowing your own faults helps allow you to forgive others.
 
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Nalu

Guest
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thanks CC for everything, thank u for giving me the chance to meet such great lovely blessed people from different countries, thank u for having such blessed people that talk about god in such a great passionate way.
i am leaving here because of some reasons:
1= some people think that this site is just for meeting people or date people. they pm me and starts asking about my age or if i am in a relationship and that disturbs me
2= this is a main reason why i am leaving this site is that some people are FAKE , they act assif they are really christian and follow god in a great way... but the truth is they are exactly the opposite , they just want to get more attention by others , i am not judging them i'm just saying the truth.

so god bless u all my friends i really love you...
TiredMary, greetings.

I have met you and must say that you are a blessing.

I honestly hope you reconsider and choose not to leave.

Nalu.
 
Oct 5, 2009
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I've found great brothers and sisters in Jesus in this site, so be of good cheer and rejoice in Him always.
Be blessed in Jesus Christ,
our Lord and saviour :)!
 

Devoted2JC

Senior Member
Jan 16, 2011
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Sorry to hear you leave, Please Keep the faith
 
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wwjd_kilden

Guest
#17
I think you can set your settings so that people you dont know cannot PM you, not sure though

AlaynaJ and Irarsup are among the moderators if people are bothering you