my kids are still with me

about 4 mths ago my husband and my 13 yr old who is now 14 got in a fist fight and i left my husband a mth i stayed faithful but i wasnt sure if i wanted him back at the time i went to tn and my ex husband filed a missing person report and took my 2 tean boys i was heart broken i left to avoid getin them taken and it still happened my husband and i are trying to work it out its hard but before my kids got taken they were both saved and baptisedso i know they will be okbut you know they may be there dads onl chance to find christ cause he has never been saved i do miss them i got my other little kids 1 and 5 if i didn't have them right now i would break,not saying they take my other kids place my boys told me not to cry they love me and they would see me again and i know they are still with me in my heart

I'm sorry this has happened hope. I think God helps us work things out when the time is right and he'll be with you through these trials as well. Definitely saying a prayer for you and your family. God bless

So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10

I'm so sorry. You're an incredibly strong person to be able to hang on and keep this mindset in these circumstances. I'm praying for you. Welcome to CC.

This is way more complex than the usual spouse abuse pattern. The two of you need some counselling.

thanks to you all for help god bless

i had my husband arested that night for that we just went to court over it they threw it out cause my ex didnt show up for my son to testify against him and what happened m son cussed my husband was yelling at my son so my son got an atitude with him and my husband told him to stand up ad turn around he was geting a spanking my son said no and he got in my sons face my son kept back talking my husband slapted him in the face and my son cussed my husband and they just started fighting and my husband was swinging a belt i had my baby on my hip and daughter i call the cops and while this was going on my son had husband in a choke hold he was being choked out they stoped fighting and cause my son was a minor husband went to jail i left went to tn my ex took my boys so i ended up back with my husband,my ex dont want my boys around my husband but like my husband said he would stay at his moms to let me see my boys but my ex still won,t let them come
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I don't think Scripture allows divorce because your husband proves to be the same maturity as a teenager. But there are still far more aspects to this, especially with an ex in the picture.

If I was your ex, I wouldn't want my son to be around a man who engages in a fist fight with him, even if it is your current husband. Not really the model of a mature man, I would want him to learn from.

You called the cops on your current husband, perhaps you should examine more closely as to the reason why you felt it necessary.

If you want to see your boys perhaps you could arrange to meet at a neutral PUBLIC place? Or if you pay child support you can get visitation rights via social services and have supervised visitation. Or wait 4 more years and your son can visit you whenever he wants.

yeah i know thats right about that but as i was sayng my ex agreed to leave the house while they visited its hard even being married and living with him but i got no choice right now as of i took vows and the gd book says unless someone cheats i got to stay,i love him but i love my boys more thats why i left and even when i left and had another place in tn he still took them from me and thats the whole reason i left and since i wasnt alowd to see them i just came back to him my husband,i would do anything for my kids even today if i was ordered by the court to leave or loose my kids for gd i would go to a homeless shelter if i had to but i am gonna have to pay an atorny to get rights when right now i am barely makeing it.my ex aint a saint either he has had fights with my son also and my son was put in boot camp at/age 11 by the school,my sn is a big boy he is well over 6 ft tall 200 pounds and he fights those men back and i am sared for him i wish it was just me and all of my kids alone i wish but its not like that though

I will pray that God helps you find a situation where you are away from abusive men and able to loving raise all your children.

thanks god bless you

Hi hope36523
Sounds like you have your hands full with ex, husband and children.
I was in the same shoes as you at one time and I always seem to take the part of peacemaker. Your children are a gift from God no matter how old or their size.
My ex was beating on my sons which was the reason we separated besides all his carousing with drugs and alcohol.
What you choose is up to you. God said that we should not marry an unbeliever but if the unbeliever be okay with our walk in God then it is good but if he/she be against our walk with God then we may leave and it would be as it were not.

If you choose to stay practice your walk with God daily in faith that He will keep you and never forsake you and that He loves your children as you do (or more). He will keep the safe and protect them and keep evil far from them.
In a life of much anger and violence children tend to pick the violence up.
One of my sons raised his hand against my husband only because my husband raised his hand against me but it was a firm warning that his behaviour towards me would not be tolerated.
I have talked with all 5 of my sons about violence as they are all well able to fend for themselves but my dad used to say There is no need to show power when you know you can because it is vanity. A fool who chooses to test your strength will someday meet with someone foolish enough to take him up on it and he will lose. Strength is given to those who use it to benefit themselves in being well able to do the task or to help others something like Samson story of the Bible.
Teach your children the ways of God and trust God to take care of you. Go in humbleness in each day. I never lift a hand to my children but they always say they fear my wrath and my husband would say Hell holds no fury over a woman's wrath.
I tend to deal with situations with determination and inner strength to succeed and it is felt by those around me. God is my strength and it shows in my spirit.
Pray that God help you through your marriage and raising your children and trust that He has already answered your prayer by going about your days as it is so.
Hugs & <3

Welcome to Christian Chat, Hope.

thanks to all your prayers and advice god bless you