Yeah, I'm the new guy...

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Tyluvschristianrawk

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Hey, my name is Tyler. I am coming back to Christ after being away for a while. Figured out that just being a good guy but not having to believe in anything isn't enough, since I felt a hole in my heart while I was away from Him. Tried for a long time to fill it with different things: Alcohol, a marriage that was never based on anything more than sex, video games. Yeah, those don't work....Only Christ does. I get that now. Anyway......just wanted to introduce myself!!!
 
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Liam

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Been there broski.
Not the marriage thing hut we didn't let that that stop us. After ten years I just gave in, she fell completely away from Christ became resentful and hateful... Domineering. When I was to atrong for her to "break" she started using sex as a weapon. Pretending I couldn't please her (even though her body couldn't lie) undermining my manhood, cheating. All this because I gave her everything she wanted cus I wanted a girl who would sleep with me and play video games. It's pretty dumb the way we got to learn sometimes.

Now I'm alone, she's begging for me back, even told by her friends that after losing me she's finally stopped drinking and smoking all the pot but it's too late for looking back now. She's agnostic, she's been forgiven over and over and she will change back the second she had me again.

How did things happen for you?
 
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welcome ty :D its great u came bck to christ. its always gd to hear something like that ^^
 
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Tyluvschristianrawk

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Liam said:
Been there broski.
Not the marriage thing hut we didn't let that that stop us. After ten years I just gave in, she fell completely away from Christ became resentful and hateful... Domineering. When I was to atrong for her to "break" she started using sex as a weapon. Pretending I couldn't please her (even though her body couldn't lie) undermining my manhood, cheating. All this because I gave her everything she wanted cus I wanted a girl who would sleep with me and play video games. It's pretty dumb the way we got to learn sometimes.

Now I'm alone, she's begging for me back, even told by her friends that after losing me she's finally stopped drinking and smoking all the pot but it's too late for looking back now. She's agnostic, she's been forgiven over and over and she will change back the second she had me again.

How did things happen for you?
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Well, she never cheated on me. But she was very controlling and tended to keep score of stuff. Like "I did this so you should do this for me" and stuff like that. She was very two-faced, also. Stuff that was said prior to the marriage changed once we had been married. It just didn't start out in a good place, and because of that, it didn't have a good foundation for the rest of the time. We are still pretty cordial and talk some, but we know that it wasn't meant to work out.
 
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Liam

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I am happy to hear that man. Really mature of the both of you, just don't let yourself slip back into old habbits?
 
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Tyluvschristianrawk

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I am happy to hear that man. Really mature of the both of you, just don't let yourself slip back into old habbits?
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Yeah, trying not to.
 
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Liam

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New things, new people, new enviroment all help. Seeing her is probally stll hard right?
I am honestly having a really hard time of things because I have three seperate girls who are "courting" me I'd guess you'd call it but none of them are Christians and all of them are trouble. I joined up here hoping I could find good Christian women (to see if god throws me a bone) and make dlne actually Christian friends.

So yeah it's hard when I know I don't HAVE to be lonly, that with just s phone call i could bevfawned over but I CANT because god will bust my butt for it. So yeah I can fullybrelatevtobhow gard it must be not to back track.
 
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Tyluvschristianrawk

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as far as seeing her goes, it varies from day to day. She is pregnant with her boyfriends kid, which hit me kinda hard after telling me for 2 years that she wanted to wait till we were more financially stable and she felt ready till we started to try to have a family. She didn't do it on purpose, but she didn't do anything to prevent it, either. So that hurt.

I am kind of here for the same reason, although I want to wait a bit before I try to get into another relationship. I need to grow in my faith first, and probably get a little bit of counseling, as well.
 
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Liam

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That sucks to hear. I dint want a relationship either. Not until I know it's right. Everytime I do something He doesn't want me to he scurges the crap outta me. A month back I honest to God just caught fire because I refused to give my bed to this girl I know. It's seriously gay. I wasn't hurt and my athiest friends were like :eek:
but I knew, so yeah I am litterally STUCK until whatever his plan is for me happens. He won't let ne jugganaught through with strength and will anymore. :(

I got to -shudder- depend on others
 
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Wow!! you guys need to stay clear of women for a long while and let God do what hte does best and clean up the messes inside and out!! If you know the women that you are not married to and are trouble are not going to take you anywhere but bad places...stay away!! listen to your conscience...God urges your heart away from things that hurt you....but he will let you make as many mistakes as you insist on making. Be Careful!! If you want a nice Christian girl you need to clean your own life up, so that you actually have something worht sharing!! God bless! Hope God heals all the hurt in your hearts from past relationships, and helps you stay strong for christ
 
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