Getting married but I am afraid

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Shellz

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Hi I'm 27 years, I'm getting married in 3 months and thinking about calling off my wedding because I am afraid. I am so scared , and I'm not excited about the wedding at all .
 
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onehighvoice

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Hi Shellz. Welcome to the site. Maybe it would be helpful to determine why you are afraid to get married. If it is because you are simply nervous about the wedding and all the planning then know that you are just excited. If it is because you are having doubts then you probably need to talk with the future mate about this. In any case, I hope that you make a wise decision.
 

MartyrNdaMaKn

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First, of all hello and welcome, delighted to have you here. What is it about the wedding that scares you? Because a wedding should be a joyful time. Since you will be forever with the one you love.
 
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SabbieWabbie

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Hello! I am also new here. Welcome. You have to pray about this, there could be many reasons you are scared, maybe it's nerves or the stress of wedding planning that's getting you all emotional. Talk to the Lord, He already knows how you are feeling, remember when you talk to Him to listen to Him too. Don't be scared, just pray till you no longer are scared, even better both you and your future husband should spend some time in prayer and worship together, sometimes when things get so busy we can't hear God's still voice amidst everything.
 
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RadioPreacherMan

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Welcome ! Your honesty of being scared is admirable. Allow it to draw you closer to Christ and spend some time alone with Him. He has His ways of " lifting off our fears " ... showing us the way ... and granting us PEACE. It's easy to do, but we need to be careful not to make any moves on " feelings. " God Bless You !
 
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Hi I'm 27 years, I'm getting married in 3 months and thinking about calling off my wedding because I am afraid. I am so scared , and I'm not excited about the wedding at all .
I haven´t read the all the thread but, why are you afraid of?

I just think about your boyfriend. O hope he be very caring and smart to help you overcome those fears but, do you lack any information you haven´t check in your mind (using some books you might need to read)?

Marriage is not for such things like fears... I´ll keep on reading. :)
 
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bluebirdchaser

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Welcome to the site. Yeah, I'd agree with everyone else here. I don't know if I have much I can offer by way of advice, but I'm praying for you for guidance and peace.
 
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TashMeyer76

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If you are not ready, do not enter into such a Vow. Be very sure this is what you want.

You're in my prayers.

God Bless you
 

blue_ladybug

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This thread is over 3 years old, the OP is no longer here, and some of the other posters have left as well..


I'm sorry I haven't found this thread earlier. I faced the same issue when my husband and I were going to get married. Now I know it is normal to worry about this event. If you want to know what helped me to calm down, there were two things. First of all, I discussed it with my husband, he understood me and helped to calm down. The second thing was a wedding planner hiring (http://www.vegasweddingsplanner.com/). I should say, it gave me a possibility to have more free time and I stopped worrying about different wedding things. So, it is better to address a professional and be sure that one of the best days in your life will be great.