Brother Tourist As all of us know who have been on this sight for any length of time,it will sure test where you believe you are at in your own relationship with our Jesus!! If we come on here expecting to become angry or offended we sure will! It will take no time at all either!! LOL if we come on here with an agenda, we also will be greatly unhappy as well. if we come on here to share what the Lord has shown us in our own life, to encourage others,we also will become encouraged! if someone says an unkind word to you,just move on from that person as if you did not even hear it! Keeping our peace is having self control! And we will get tested to!! I really enjoy the site and the people,i do not always agree with the people,nor they with me,but I am here to both learn and give hope! If you keep this mindset,you will always keep your peace as well! For the site is about learning how to put the flesh to death daily,even when your flesh can be correct! By having grace to others who perhaps do not deserve it from you! We do this because we also know we always need grace to! We are established in hope,which includes joy and peace in believing,even when your flesh tells you they will never understand you! hehe(Rom 15:13) if Jesus saw us in the flesh,we would never believe either! ( col 3:2) a mindset on phil 4:6-9!! Then each time you come here,you will never be disappointed! may this also comfort you bro! For Jesus is always our comfort!!( 2 cor 1:3-7)