hallo, am new here and believe it is the right place.
am a christian mum who is so heartbroken and now separated from my marriage of 15 years.
i know the church preaches against divorce but i am in so much pain in an abusive marriage ... kindly welcom me on board and make me feel better ..
Welcome! I am praying for you. If you are in an abusive marriage then you need to let it go. God doesn't expect you to remain in an unloving, ungodly, and abusive relationship.
God doesn't condone abuse.
And the Lord said, “Who then is the faithful and wise manager, whom his master will set over his household, to give them their portion of food at the proper time? Blessed is that servant whom his master will find so doing when he comes. Truly, I say to you, he will set him over all his possessions. But if that servant says to himself, ‘My master is delayed in coming,’ and begins to beat the male and female servants, and to eat and drink and get drunk, the master of that servant will come on a day when he does not expect him and at an hour he does not know, and will cut him in pieces and put him with the unfaithful. Luke 12:42-46 (ESV)
God commands us to walk in love.
A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another.” John 13:34
Husbands are to love their wives as Christ love the church.
Ephesians 5:25English Standard Version (ESV)
25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her,