THINKING SOMEONE LIKES YOU WHEN THEY ACTUALLY DON'T

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lady with broken down car seeks man with no kitchen skills.

Ok got it.
lol..
Encouraging man with car tyre changing skills seeks woman who doesnt mind medieval outfits,trimmed chest wigs and glowing teeth..πŸ˜‰
 

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i am writing this down in case I actually ever see this in action.
I have a friend whos husband actually owns a tyre company. But I am not sure if she met him it was because of the tyres.
I have so far avoided having to change my tyres for a few years but this thread has made me want to get them checked out.
Ha Ha...he owns a tyre company...there must be a link there then somewhere..😊😊
Ahhh you're the 2nd person who has been reminded to get their tyres checked out.πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ‘πŸ».So you and Ruby123 have both been Encouraged by "encouagement"....oh the irony...πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰
 

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I see where I am going wrong suddenly!!! I have no car! No wonder I am single lol πŸ˜‚
🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣....dont worry your still covered..Tyres are also seen in a metaphorical sense now too.
Tyres help the car get around and are the only part that has contact with the road right.
So your shoes are the equivalent of the tyre..
So broken/painful shoes I can help withπŸ‘’πŸ‘‘
Any foot complaints I can assist...πŸ‘£
You know how it happens you're out and about and ur feet ache..or your shoe heel gives way..??πŸ˜‰
Who you gonna call.
"Encouragement".πŸ’πŸ»β€β™€οΈ..(background is the ghost busters music)..🀣🀣🀣🀣
"Introducing the Encouragement Taxi Service - easing your pain while taking you where you need to go (as long as I don't have to carry you over my shoulder)..."
 

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"Introducing the Encouragement Taxi Service - easing your pain while taking you where you need to go (as long as I don't have to carry you over my shoulder)..."
my goodness....I have finally found my lifes calling..πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰...you have just confirmed my destiny..πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘
This explains why my middle name is "CAR"...and why my hands look like spanners..🀣🀣🀣
 
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I cant say that I've ever been in a situation where I mistook someone's friendship for something else. But then I dont usually have close friendships with members of the opposite sex. And being old fashioned, if I liked someone I would wait on him to show an interest first.
 

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my goodness....I have finally found my lifes calling..πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰...you have just confirmed my destiny..πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘
This explains why my middle name is "CAR"...and why my hands look like spanners..🀣🀣🀣
Ok so it is clear now En. You have a car changing/taxi business where you provide coffee whilst changing tyres or transporting people by taxi. Payment is cake. Payment before hand.
 

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So my job is to take the calls, pass them onto you, collect the cake (possibly eat some of it) and make the coffee. Sounds reasonable with good pay. When do I start lol?
 

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Ok so it is clear now En. You have a car changing/taxi business where you provide coffee whilst changing tyres or transporting people by taxi. Payment is cake. Payment before hand.
well that's mostly correct..
Definitely a.. Tyre car changing service with premium services such a female roadside shoe repairs/painful feet leviation...and yes a guaranteed pleasure based experience when tyres are changed of tea/coffee with calming whale music in the background ect..😊😊
Payment must be a cake..πŸ°πŸŽ‚πŸŽ‚..πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹
 

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So my job is to take the calls, pass them onto you, collect the cake (possibly eat some of it) and make the coffee. Sounds reasonable with good pay. When do I start lol?
Well you are allowed to sample the cake for sure and give the customer feedback coz remember you are the cake queen(πŸ°πŸ‘‘) around here.Plus send out feedback forms to see if cupids arrow struck any lady customers..πŸ’˜πŸ’˜πŸ’˜πŸ’˜
when can you start??
My dear you already have...🀣🀣
 

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I once had a guy friend who I thought liked me, but he said he didn’t.
He was wrong though.
Turns out if you tell a guy enough that he does like you he eventually will.

To recap: He was wrong. I was right.
 

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Well you are allowed to sample the cake for sure and give the customer feedback coz remember you are the cake queen(πŸ°πŸ‘‘) around here.Plus send out feedback forms to see if cupids arrow struck any lady customers..πŸ’˜πŸ’˜πŸ’˜πŸ’˜
when can you start??
My dear you already have...🀣🀣
Ok, so we should have success by the end of this year.(y)(y)
 

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Ok, so we should have success by the end of this year.(y)(y)
Most definitely....I am sure...and with xmas not far away you might receive a bonus on ur salary if you send me virtual cake number 17 that looks like a car tyre being repaired on the road side..🀣
 

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I once had a guy friend who I thought liked me, but he said he didn’t.
He was wrong though.
Turns out if you tell a guy enough that he does like you he eventually will.

To recap: He was wrong. I was right.
🀣🀣🀣...So it could be just a case of them liking you but not yet being aware that they like you..πŸ’˜..a bit of reverse psychology?
well if it works then I'm all in on this one..πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰
 

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This worked with Sally Field.

Give someone an Oscar and they will think you really like them.
 

Encouragement

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This worked with Sally Field.

Give someone an Oscar and they will think you really like them.
Hold on ..so if I give someone a heart shaped massive diamond that's embedded in a bed of rose's then sprinkled with arabian gold dust plus enfused with the sent of honey droplets and lillies..
..they would also think that I really like them right..?πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜Š
 

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Hold on ..so if I give someone a heart shaped massive diamond that's embedded in a bed of rose's then sprinkled with arabian gold dust plus enfused with the sent of honey droplets and lillies..
..they would also think that I really like them right..?πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜Š
now you getting the picture. wow you men never heard of giving a woman a gift? Just cos shes special and you like her?
You dont need to actually DO anything or be a hero. Just pick some flowers.
 
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Hi have you been in the situation when you think someone likes you❀ and start thinking all sorts then realise they were actually just being friendly towards you and that you had misinterpreted their behaviour?Or has your naturally friendly interaction with someone been misread by them whereby they'e thinking that you like them ❀..and at some point you have to let then know that you are just being friendly and have no romantic feelings towards them?When I was a young Christian there was someone in my bible study who i got on so well with..she was super friendly and i soon misinterpreted her beautifully friendly manner as a sign that she like me ❀..so one day we had a chat and it turned out she didn't like me at all in the way..just saw me as a friend thats it...
It did clear the air for me coz for weeks I was thinking all sorts and kept analysing her interaction with me as being displays of romantic affection when she was just actually being friendlyπŸ˜‚
Also i have noticed over the years that sometimes single Christians may have issues mixing together sometimes because there is somehow the presumption that someone gonna mistake their friendliness for something elseπŸ€·β€β™€οΈThis can make singles Christian have feeling of unease sometimes and sometimes it doesn't even happen like that anyway...natural friendships are formed between the sexes without anything being misread...although it can and does happen sometimes too.
People can even be a bit defensive coz they somehow assume you're gonna get clingy or think they like you or even like them..
I mean most of us can have platonic friendships without assuming the other person is gonna somehow think we like them ❀..just because we're being friendly and enjoying their company..
Love to hear from you..😊
Has your friendliness been mistaken for something else by someone or have you misread someones friendliness to you..thinking they have feeling for you..when infact they're just
being friendly?
Sometimes it can be embarrassing or uncomfortable pending on what happens..
I'm no expert in this, so I'm not gonna claim that this is something like an advice. More like sharing what I feel and understand. If you're single then you are going to be attracted by other single women and they will feel attracted to you too when you show interest and even when you don't sometimes. The attraction is natural. There's just a very thin line between falling in love and maintaining a good friendship. Because if you like someone, it's easy to fall in love with that person.

Falling in love is something that happens in a matter of seconds. It's not as complicated as people make it to be.

Although in between the attraction, you have a lot of factors. You look for compatibility. If two people think it's going to go well between them, then most likely it will. But people draw a line and friend zone someone when they feel that they're looking for some other qualities or expect something different from the partner to give to them. And if they think they're not going to get that from you then they won't go for you.

A simple way to succeed in love is to keep an open heart, pray to God for the right kind of life partner you want to have and allow the person to have a place in your life when they want in. And see where it goes from there. If you feel that you love someone, make sure you tell them quick, you may not get a chance to say it otherwise to that person. A rejection is better than to never have tried. It could be embarrassing, but if you look at it that way, it's going to make it harder.

Then again, God knows better for you should the person you love say no. Get used to the NOs. And most people say no initially. You could try again, if you aren't satisfied with the first rejection. But I personally prefer to move on once I know my feelings are not reciprocated by the Lady. I definitely move on when the woman has already found a man or if I find out she's seeing someone. Some people would still try even then. I'd say that's a good sign to move on and find someone else.

Or keep in prayer and wait. God will provide. Just be aware when He provides.

All the best
 

Encouragement

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now you getting the picture. wow you men never heard of giving a woman a gift? Just cos shes special and you like her?
You dont need to actually DO anything or be a hero. Just pick some flowers.
Of course we have..what u mean?πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
Plus one of my gifts would most definitely be changing her tyre,providing her a warm drink as it's being done,giving her access to behold my dazzling smile...and much much more...plus flowers...plus the special premium service...not forgetting the previous diamond embedded in a bed of Rose's...
..and not forgetting such a task does demand an exhibition of good multitasking skills (which would destroy those false truths that men can't multitask)..so how could it possibly go wrong?😊