Forgiving Myself

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Poinsetta

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Yesterday, we considered why people fail to forgive themselves for wrongdoing. Today, let’s look at questions to ask yourself when you struggle with self-condemnation.
1. Why should I continue to condemn myself when God no longer condemns me?
2. Is my self-condemnation affecting my relationship with God? What about my relationships with other people? How so?
3. What good comes from refusing to forgive myself?
4. Does the Lord find me more devout because of my guilt and shame?
5. Is there any biblical basis for withholding self-forgiveness?
6. How long do I intend to condemn myself? What must happen for me to finally forgive myself?

When facing self-doubt and remorse, focus on the basics of who God is and what He wants for your life. Prayerfully consider these six questions. Read them aloud and spend time reflecting on each one. You may even want to journal or work through your thoughts in prayer as the Lord speaks. Don’t be alarmed if you find yourself wrestling with some of the answers. Remember, God wants to help renew our perspective, and He promises to be with us as we confront our guilt.

Devotion from InTouch Ministries
 

2ndTimothyGroup

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Self-condemnation is a tool of the Devil. But why is the Devil still allowed a foothold in a believer's life if the Evil Sin Nature has been cut out and removed? If the Devil is no longer a person's Father, there is no way that God the Father would ever cause one of His Children to hate themselves.

Leviticus 26:13 NLT - i"I am the LORD your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt so you would no longer be their slaves. I broke the yoke of slavery from your neck so you can walk with your heads held high."

Ezekiel 11:19-20 NLT - "And I will give them singleness of heart and put a new spirit within them. I will take away their stony, stubborn heart and give them a tender, responsive heart, 20 so they will obey my decrees and regulations. Then they will truly be my people, and I will be their God."