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Would you take your homosexual next door neighbor for a doctor appointment?

  • No way! I'm not condoning that kind of lifestyle by helping a homosexual.

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  • Only if the person was a "recovering" homosexual, living a repented life

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Only if the doctor visit had nothing to do with AIDS

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  • Sure!

    Votes: 7 100.0%
  • Other

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  • Total voters
    7

Lynx

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How about it? What if your next door neighbor was homosexual, and needed a ride to a hospital... Oh, say, 50 minutes away. Let's pretend you were free that day, as unlikely as that may be with family, job and all. Would you take him? Under what circumstances?

If your choice isn't in the poll, please suggest other options.
 

Pipp

Majestic Llamacorn
Sep 17, 2013
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#2
Yes. Just like I'd take the pregnant single lady, or the chain smoking old man . A person is a person is a person. Jesus died for everyone, meaning he cares for everyone. We should too... how else are we gonna show them the Love of Christ ?
 

BeeBlessed

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#3
Of course. Homosexuality is not contagious.

1 John 4:8 (NKJV)
He who does not love does not know God, for God is love.

50 minutes is a nice long drive, long enough to introduce a person to Jesus—to plant a seed at the very least. Of course, people could gossip; but people gossiped about Jesus associating with sinners, too, did they not?
 

Lynx

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#4
Of course. Homosexuality is not contagious.
I'm gonna remember this one. :cool:
50 minutes is a nice long drive, long enough to introduce a person to Jesus—to plant a seed at the very least.
Don't forget drive-time music, which is yours to select as it is your vehicle.

With my collection I could play any style the helpless victim... Uh, I mean my nice friend likes, and all Christian. :D
Of course, people could gossip; but people gossiped about Jesus associating with sinners, too, did they not?
Are you condoning homosexuality if you give him a ride? What if the doctor appointment is AIDS related?
 

seoulsearch

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#5
Of course. Homosexuality is not contagious.
I loved this answer so much! Thank you for sharing it! :)

Are you condoning homosexuality if you give him a ride? What if the doctor appointment is AIDS related?
This thread reminds me of several years ago when a young single mother here on CC posted that when her young son had a medical emergency, not a single person from their church would give them a ride to the hospital. The reason given was that she was a single mother with a child born out of wedlock, and apparently they didn't want any of "HER" sin to "taint" them. Apparently they believed that helping her would somehow cause her sinful contagion to spread and give the impression that they were approving of her sin.

Never mind that this young woman was on her own and the very reason she was in that church was because she was trying to put the past behind her and move forward in her Christian walk.

A good friend was talking today about a sermon in which it was said that the early church was known for its love, whereas the church of today is known mostly for what it is against.

I certainly understand that as Christians, we must stand against sin.

But in this example, I would hope I would simply see this as a human being in need and someone I could help, since God had given me the blessing of a day off and a working car that could make it that far. And who knows? Maybe the conversation along the way could open a door.

If we start filtering for sins before we help someone in a case like this, where do we start drawing lines?

In another thread, I was talking about a pastor's convention in which over 90% of the hotel rooms ordered pay-per-view porn during their stay (the entire hotel was booked for this event, so everyone there had something to do with this pastor's meeting, and this was before the days of the internet so porn took a lot more effort and expense to get.)

If we changed this scenario from a homosexual needing a ride to the hospital to a straight pastor who had watched pornographic movies all weekend, would the answer change?

And if so, why?
 

Lynx

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#6
I loved this answer so much! Thank you for sharing it! :)



This thread reminds me of several years ago when a young single mother here on CC posted that when her young son had a medical emergency, not a single person from their church would give them a ride to the hospital. The reason given was that she was a single mother with a child born out of wedlock, and apparently they didn't want any of "HER" sin to "taint" them. Apparently they believed that helping her would somehow cause her sinful contagion to spread and give the impression that they were approving of her sin.

Never mind that this young woman was on her own and the very reason she was in that church was because she was trying to put the past behind her and move forward in her Christian walk.

A good friend was talking today about a sermon in which it was said that the early church was known for its love, whereas the church of today is known mostly for what it is against.

I certainly understand that as Christians, we must stand against sin.

But in this example, I would hope I would simply see this as a human being in need and someone I could help, since God had given me the blessing of a day off and a working car that could make it that far. And who knows? Maybe the conversation along the way could open a door.

If we start filtering for sins before we help someone in a case like this, where do we start drawing lines?

In another thread, I was talking about a pastor's convention in which over 90% of the hotel rooms ordered pay-per-view porn during their stay (the entire hotel was booked for this event, so everyone there had something to do with this pastor's meeting, and this was before the days of the internet so porn took a lot more effort and expense to get.)

If we changed this scenario from a homosexual needing a ride to the hospital to a straight pastor who had watched pornographic movies all weekend, would the answer change?

And if so, why?
I heard a comedian talking about how hotel TVs (no idea which hotel chain) push porn heavily...
 

MsMediator

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Are there actually people who will say no?
 

Lynx

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Are there actually people who will say no?
You'd be surprised how many on this forum would say no.

If I had started this thread in BDF it would have taken a much different path.
 

jennymae

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#11
Maybe they’re actually afraid that it really is contagious, and that they after 50 minutes inside the same car will come out full blown gays wearing lipstick and a dress that is just too much?😂
 

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
Aug 13, 2014
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#12
Maybe they’re actually afraid that it really is contagious, and that they after 50 minutes inside the same car will come out full blown gays wearing lipstick and a dress that is just too much?😂
It's not a purse! It's... A European messenger bag.

It was a gift...
 

BeeBlessed

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#13
Are you condoning homosexuality if you give him a ride? What if the doctor appointment is AIDS related?
Absolutely not—not condoning homosexuality, and anyone knowing me well enough to ask for a ride would already know that. Also, I don’t believe it’s possible to contract AIDS by breathing the same air with someone who has it.
 

Karlon

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sure. but if he started in on that topic i would tell him to refrain from speaking to me in that manner forever.