Feeling like this relationship isn't going anywhere

I'm feeling like my relationship isn't going anywhere,long distance relationships are very hard work,were supposed to see each other again at the beginning of next month,but now he might have to have surgery again,so I don't know when well be able to see each other again now,I'm hoping and praying that it's not cancer,and that he will be ok,please pray with me for Gary and our relationship,Lord,Jesus,I pray to have a strong and lasting relationship with Gary,and please let him be ok,and not have cancer or anything else,in Lord,Jesus name,Amen.

Philippians 4:19

Yes, long distance relationships can be very tough, and expensive lol. Praying for your and Gary's relationship and that you both prosper and be in good health!

lol,yes,they sure can be thank you for the prayers.

Lord Jesus remove every negative thoughts and feelings, bless them to have a sweet relationship, and this realtionship be a blessing for others as well, Amen

Amen an amen they say absence makes the heart grow fonder for people in love and friends too. Like looking forward and being happy about the day you meet again.
This is something to be happy for im hope you dont mind but i like to ask for prayes on other peoples prayes not that im insensertive i pray allready that you come together soon and you probably allready are in spirit.
My prayer is i struggle in relationships becuase i have fear of being hurt in my heart its constant and sometimes i keep that fear on to long that leads to other fears as soon as i sit by the window they go away but my prayer is help need for how to deal with my fear in my heart of being hurt.

butterfly, i am praying for you and Gary!
and because you have such a sweet heart, i believe you won't mind me addressing this...and i thank you. ♥


my brother...i think, if we are honest, we can acknowledge we all feel that way to one degree or another.

we worry about things like these...
if i enter into a relationship with you, and you grow to see the real me, will you reject me?

will you be another transient person in my life whom i give my heart to, and then circumstances change and you leave?
which rips my heart out and makes me sad.

if i enter into a relationship with you, will i hurt you ?

Zinzerio, these fears are common to us all. and i am sorry they're at the forefront of your life right now.

one of the problems with us listening to the fear is that it hinders God's work in our lives.
it can hinder the advancement of the Gospel.

and, honestly, there will always be people who reject us and hurt us and leave us.

but...God knows you inside out...totally and completely...the things you hide from other people, and maybe want to hide from yourself.

and He loves you. amazing! He knows us, and He loves us!
and more, He gives us His love to share with others.

i know it's in you, this love of God, shed abroad in your heart.
so, hard as it is, try shushing the fears, and as you feel better, maybe with just one person at first...
share yourself with them knowing God has got your back.
His love for you never fades, diminishes, or changes.

and your relationship with God, in Christ, is the relationship that matters.

praying for you.
love,
ellie

Thank you Zinzerio,and I'm praying for you,Lord Jesus,I'm praying for Zinzerio,please let Zinzerio rid of all of this lonlyness,in Jesus name,Amen.

Thank you so much I'm 41 and walking with the lord praise god.
But the girl im with has been with me through all my ups an downs for 23
years the first 4 years of that relationship i was very rebellious out of my head on drink getting in trouble fighting thiefing basically out of control I was robing everyone I was addicted to drugs all of which was mostly done in a small village where everyone new your business.
Since the age of 22 i have never commited a criminal offence once.
I have tried and tried to rebuild rekationships and trust but in those 5 years when i was very messed up both mentaly and in the heart inaslo rebelled against my wife having affairs and basicaly i had a huge problem with trust.
Nobody ever understood because i never talked to anyone about anything everyone just saw me as a coward or a scumbag which made me rebel more. The affairs that i had still affects are relation ship today in the sense that mybwife gets paronoid which hurts me deeply because im not that person anymore up until the age of 17 i was the guy i have been since the age of 22 kind friendly i just went through a period of total rebelliouse behavior for quite a few reason like wronful arrests my mum dieing my family problems being hurt all of which led to me being not my self.
Me and wife now are fine but still we have are problems like
If i put

Her first all the time I real a sense of hurt deeplywhen we fall out but i keep on going and i keep on trying but the problems i caused back then
Cause a huge rift between me and her very posh family and her very family friends to which today it is still a problem even know everyone can see i do my best and look after her with all my heart.
Im scared that people will eventualy tear us apart because people dont want me to be succesful in life they would rather live in my past.
I would like to see them run thete own buisness with the problem i have had and my disabilities. But no kind words said there about anything like that just how much of a bad guy i am. Im so sick of it but i will never go back into that rebel evet again and if i have to i will do anything to survive like even cleaning the streets or charitable work because thats who i am and who i have always been apart from 5 years of a messed up life.
So this my prayer i just want people to leavr me alone. And stop hurting my feeling and a prayer forvtrust to be totaly restored because this is my biggest hurt when i put so much effort in only to be treated as if i dont make any effort is my biggest hurt.

This post is absolutely outstanding.

I am on the road to recovery too and the Lord has blessed me with a wonderful woman to be by my side. There will always be those that try to discourage you. I understand this full well. Focus on the woman that you love and block out all of those who are trying to drag you down. You sound like a survivor type and you are willing to do whatever it takes to survive. I am the same type of person. Keep the faith and fight the good fight and I will do the same as well.

I understand your fear after being hurt and I wasted 35 years being afraid to step out and take a chance again with a real relationship. There will come a time when you will have to step out of your comfort zone or you may waste 35 years yourself. I will pray for you both...

Dear Father In Heaven

Please be with butterfly and Gary and bless their relationship. Help Gary with this illness and according to Your will please help things to work our for the two of them to be able to have a good life together and in good health. Give them strength, peace, comfort and wrap Your arms of love around them as they have to go through the process of medical procedures in Gary's situation that You know all about and be with them through the entire situation.

Also please be with Zinzerio and help him to be bold and trust that he will be able to have another relationship in spite of the hurt he has experienced before. Help him to be able to step out of his comfort zone when the time is right and help him to pray for Your guidance where relationships are concerned. Thank you for hearing this prayer in Jesus Name Amen.

if the real you is not you nooooooo if the real you is you why would i reject someone i have got to known and love.
We are to shine on bring people into the light if relationship is not just about love its also about trust and friend ship amen and God bless

The vow the oath do you both promise to love each other for long as you shall live to Christ each other ?
This is sacred this is talking about the heart this is talkin about two people who have give there heart to each other.
Did you know that when the female duck and the male duck mate together they becomes mates for life after that and are inseperable.
When ever one of the ducks wonders off the other ducks crys out with anguish . do you know what species of duck quack quack ? Haha
When you give your heart away youmoeep on giving it away after that no matter ifnthenhurt is bad you can choose to be motivated or depressed. I likemto sing songs when im down

May GOD heal him soon!

Several years ago I had a relationship with someone another conuntry. We spent a full year learning and knowing from one another and, when I got the money, I went to her country and she decided to follow me to Venezuela... We lived almost 2 years together...

You feel the distance? Sometimes, in marriage, people get so isolated and alone, that they see their faces and seldom their hearts... Just to show oposite extremes to chew few thoughts on what you said is GOING NOWHERE?

My bf is my life,I love him with all of my heart,he means the world to me,I will wait for him,no matter what.

I've been dealing with this very thing for the past two years. First my girlfriend lived in a town about an hour and a half away; And that was hard enough for a young kid to manage between juggling everything else. Now she's went off to college that's three hours away, and while this distance isn't nearly as great as many relationships its still very difficult. We have managed though. Its taken a lot of prayer, and a lot of patience. A lot of believing it was meant to be, and being very in love and too stubborn to accept anything but being together. Continue to pray, and continue to spend what time you can together, and know that if its meant to be it will eventually all come together. Most likely when you're least expecting it.

I'll pray for you. God Bless!

Just an update that for the prayer my wife is back and where having the time of our lives can'ttthank you all enough. Xxx for the advice and help today is day 3 longest time we have been together in 3 weeks and i jumped a huge wall today
Was a test my wife had a grumpy morning so instead of adding fuel to the fire like i Inormal do lol iIcooked her a wonderful breakfast have a guess what it worked honey yogurt eggs spinach ham blessed walnut oil and punk seed oil truly its a blessed day, need prayer I'm of to the quacks byeee xx

Hey back from the doc had a lovely visit really nice doctor, have to do some more blood tests if they come back as normal may be getting referred to a brain neorolagist hopefully, thanks for ya prayers an support through some difficult worrying times .
Good news tho im feeling good apart from the inside of my brain sounding like the iside of a television and a feeling of build up of pressure on my brain from time to time but I'm managing .
Like i have just got use to it now and excepted that it could go pop any minute.
Good thing is tho I'm just happy there is peace in my life and all i desire is for the peace to be with all my friends forever byee adios friends chow chow.

Your sincerely forever in the lord and a blessing to have known many of yas here jimbo xx