consumed by anger

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ladygwapa71

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Nov 19, 2014
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I have an issue with my mom's relatives(grandmother's side). It all started with an inheritance issue until later it became personal. I have been dealing this for 2 years now and the issue is getting worse. They told some of our acquiantances things about and my sister that aren't true in social media, in short, they are trying to brainwashed these people to sympathize them against me and my sister. I already gave up what was supposed to be for me and my family about this inheritance though I saw and felt the injustice they've done to my mother and her sister. It's just a material thing. Some of our close friends suggested that I should bring it to court to fight our right but I prefer to just walked away. And what pissed me more are the lies they told the people about us and worst they posted it on facebook. And I admit, there was a time I lost control and fight them back. After that battle incident on social media, I tried to calm myself and not talk anymore though I still hear they still broadcast lies about me and my sister. And honestly, I so much hate them. I want to move on and learn to ignore and not get affected whatever I hear or see from them. But my heart is full of anger and my mind sometimes would tell me to take revenge. I know it is not just to take revenge, it's not what God wants us to do. My brothers and sisters in Christ I need prayers to calm my heart and mind. I don't wanna be consumed by anger. Please help me pray that one day I can find forgiveness in my heart. And please help me pray that I will learn to keep calm and would stay calm whatever I hear from my enemies. AMEN!
 

damombomb

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Feb 27, 2011
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Father thank you for peace and letting this situation be over with and for a victorious outcome and the right thing be done.
Thank you already that you have heard this prayer, in Jesus name, amen
 
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psychomom

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Wonderful Father, You are Great and we are small and frail.
You want us to forgive and pray for those who hurt us,
but though we can will to do it,
real forgiveness only comes from You.
please cause my sister to relinquish any anger and hard feelings...
any unforgiveness in her heart.
remind her...and me...that You, in Jesus, have forgiven her...all of us...so much.
we need to see that, Lord God...we need a daily reminder of our offenses
against You, and Your great mercy and grace toward us.
please restore my sister. grant her mercy. show her Jesus
so she can truly let it all go.
thank You for the way You've taken her, that she let the material things go.
carry her the rest of the way, Father,
for Jesus' sake, amen.
 

levi85

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Jul 2, 2013
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Lord Jesus, please remove the bitterness towards one another. and reconcile their family members, bless them to share your character, among themselves, and in day today life, AMen
 
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butterfly712

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Lord Jesus, please remove the bitterness towards one another. and reconcile their family members, bless them to share your character, among themselves, and in day today life, AMen
Yes Lord Jesus,please remove this bitterness,in Lord Jesus name,Amen.
 
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MadParrotWoman

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I have an issue with my mom's relatives(grandmother's side). It all started with an inheritance issue until later it became personal. I have been dealing this for 2 years now and the issue is getting worse. They told some of our acquiantances things about and my sister that aren't true in social media, in short, they are trying to brainwashed these people to sympathize them against me and my sister. I already gave up what was supposed to be for me and my family about this inheritance though I saw and felt the injustice they've done to my mother and her sister. It's just a material thing. Some of our close friends suggested that I should bring it to court to fight our right but I prefer to just walked away. And what pissed me more are the lies they told the people about us and worst they posted it on facebook. And I admit, there was a time I lost control and fight them back. After that battle incident on social media, I tried to calm myself and not talk anymore though I still hear they still broadcast lies about me and my sister. And honestly, I so much hate them. I want to move on and learn to ignore and not get affected whatever I hear or see from them. But my heart is full of anger and my mind sometimes would tell me to take revenge. I know it is not just to take revenge, it's not what God wants us to do. My brothers and sisters in Christ I need prayers to calm my heart and mind. I don't wanna be consumed by anger. Please help me pray that one day I can find forgiveness in my heart. And please help me pray that I will learn to keep calm and would stay calm whatever I hear from my enemies. AMEN!
Father, cleanse our sister's heart and take away all bitterness and thoughts of revenge. Give this lady a perfect peace in her heart - a peace that passes all understanding. Don't allow the enemy to invade her thoughts, instead turn those thoughts toward you and you alone. Teach our sister to turn the other cheek when the enemy uses her relatives to spread his lies. I pray this in Jesus' name, amen.
 

ladygwapa71

Junior Member
Nov 19, 2014
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thanks for your prayers brothers and sisters.
 

SoulWeaver

Senior Member
Oct 25, 2014
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in short, they are trying to brainwashed these people to sympathize them against me and my sister.
It is called smear campaign and it is a sociopathic behavior.
(google smear campaign personality disorder, you might feel much better when you find that you are not alone)...

I pray God will grant you His peace over the matter, and eventually empower you to forgive them and pray for them like He prayed for His enemies. I know it is a hard thing to do... but you are willing and ask for a thing according to His will, and I trust He will give you. In Jesus' name, amen