I might be alone forever

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jsmoove

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I don't want people to think I'm looking for sympathy. However I really need someone in my life as feel very lonley. I might be a loser for never having a girlfriend or a serious relationship but I'm desperate please pray for me.
 

Reborn

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Welcome.
Never a loser my man. Putting yourself out there like this takes guts. There are people on here that are really cool, so mingle around a little. :D
Btw-It's when I'm alone and have time to study and pray-- that's when I'm always my best. Use that time to grow.
See you around the forums Brother.
BWell.
 
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hisgarden1943

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You may be depressed; find out and treat it, if that is the problem. Go to a class on making friends. Go to a church you are not known and start over with your relationships. If you need plastic surgery and you have the money begin there. Do not sit mentally where you are. Read positive uplifting words. Go to a church big enough to have secular classes. Stick around positive people. Take a course in something you normally would not be interested in. Do. What ever you do...DO.
 

levi85

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Oh Lord Jesus we pray to you, bring a Godly person in jsmoove life now, so that they both share love and joy with each other. let them also praise and magnify your name in their relationship, Amen
 
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VioletReigns

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Brother Jsmoove, please don't voice any negative comments about yourself. None of those things are true for the Lord Jesus suffered horribly and died an agonizing death to show you what great worth you are to Him. Always, always, ALWAYS, son look to the Cross for your worth. Jesus is the Authority! Jesus said you deserve love. Jesus said you are precious and perfect in His sight. Jesus said He knows all the hairs numbered on your head and knew all your bodily parts even before you were in your mother's womb. Jesus knows you intimately and loves you tremendously! He knows all your thoughts and the desires of your heart.

Before you walk out your door today, talk with the Lord and realize how great love He has for you. Then take that love with you in your heart wherever you go. Do NOT look to the insecure and deceptive world to tell you who you are. That is all false. If you were my son, it would break my heart if I thought you considered yourself anything but precious in God's sight. Jesus is your Authority. Walk in His Truth from this day forward, son, ok?

Father, raise our brother Jsmoove up a holy standard of honor for You. Let him know who's son he is, that he belongs to You and is a holy vessel. Give him right thoughts, open his eyes to Truth and let him no longer believe lies from this temporary world. Lord, we ask for Your grace, YOUR GRACE, YOUR GRACE poured upon this man of God that he may continue to walk with Your boldness and in Your confidence.

In Isaiah, it was prophesied that You were not the most handsome man, Lord Jesus and nevertheless people continually looked for You, thronged around You and surrounded You every day because they were drawn to Your sincerity and wisdom and love. Let brother Jsmoove be more like You, let him pour forth Your love to others. Help him to stop being self-conscious, shy and anxious but let him start looking outward at other people and see them the way You do. Make him a man of strength & compassion toward others that You can draw people to him that he can tell of Your great love and amazing grace. Make dear Jsmoove the man You created him to be, for his good and for Your pleasure, Precious Lord Jesus!! Thank You for hearing and answering this precious man's prayers. Thank You, Lord!
 

RickyZ

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I hear you, for the most part I couldn't get a woman's attention if I was on fire outside a boarding house. But God eventually brought me together with someone. Patience. And if the loneliness gets to be too much for you, go sit in on the local divorce court. See what happens when you let loneliness become desperation.

In God's time. Until then, don't worry about it. That only takes it out of God's hands.
 

ladygwapa71

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How old are you to feel so desperate of not finding a partner. I think you are young and you still have a long long way to go. Remember life is full of surprises. Entrust everything in God's hands and He will make a way for you. Stay positive, have faith. It will come in God's time.
 
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Raine

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In those moments of loneliness I ask God to be my comforter and to be my friend... And He is. I know this prolly doesn't provide comfort "fleshly-wise," but God can provide comfort spiritually and even at times when we are open to His presence, physically.

There were many times after I had broken up with my ex-fiance and going through the heart ache process where I had to learn to rely on God's comfort and his comfort alone. No one else could comfort me completely except Him because only He knows me completely. The beautiful part in all of this is that God knows what He is doing and has led me to such a beautiful place in life.

If you remain in God's path and in His presence, you will not go wrong in the path that you follow, and hopefully, He will eventually lead you to meet someone special and godly. :)

Good luck!
 
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optimistic

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I don't want people to think I'm looking for sympathy. However I really need someone in my life as feel very lonley. I might be a loser for
 
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optimistic

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I understand the feeling of loneliness without some one to share life with, but my relationship with man can never be as satisfying as haVing a relationship with God.
God understands all my heart ache and fills me with peace that passes all understanding. When we are desperate, we expect to much from the next person that comes into our life and a relationship built on brokenness is bound to only end in heartache.
 
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butterfly712

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I don't want people to think I'm looking for sympathy. However I really need someone in my life as feel very lonley. I might be a loser for never having a girlfriend or a serious relationship but I'm desperate please pray for me.
jsmoove,I'm sure that your a really great guy,don't ever give up on finding a really great girl,sometimes it takes a really long time to find someone,I never thought that I would meet someone,but I did,my high school sweetheart came back in my life,and I couldn't be any happier.
 
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I don't want people to think I'm looking for sympathy. However I really need someone in my life as feel very lonley. I might be a loser for never having a girlfriend or a serious relationship but I'm desperate please pray for me.
We're never alone. The Lord is always with us. Talk with him. He'll show you the way.