please i need answers

I am in a relationship with a wonderful man who I love dearly. he left Wednesday night . I had been praying to god to bring him back or give me a sign. on Friday he came back and left Saturday at 1 p.m. when he left he said he loves me but just doesn't know where to go from here since I don't trust him. he says that hurt him. he has had a hard life, his dad killed his mom and then shot himself when he was 12. his ex girfriend whom he was with for almost 6 years and has 2 kids by cheated on him with his cousin and told him he wouldn't do it again and did. I am having sever anxiety over this situation. I don't eat, sleep and I don't want to go into work. all I do is cry and pray. I have a 5 year old that I take care of full time he has disabilities. he hasn't seen his dad in over a year. his things are still including his dog, clothes, laptop, his daughters tablets, etc. I prayed with cbn and asked for a sign from god either by vision or dream and I had 2 dreams he came home. Are these really signs from God that everything will be ok. I just found out his grandma had a stroke and isn't doing good. he is the type to hold things in and not talk about anything and when he has had enough he blows his top and leaves. he didn't talk to his sister for a few weeks. I am heart broken . I cant take this anymore. I am at the end of my rope. He is not in church. But when he does go you can see God moving on him. everyone has been praying hard for him and he seems to run or shut down. Please I need answer to prayer fast, Not knowing and not being with him is killing me .

"I don't want to go into work"

This is not good to do: Are you isolating the more?

How come will you eat $$$$$$oon?

Lord Jesus, you know the hearts, we pray to you , Lord Jesus, answer them, Amen

Father,

in this time of confusion, I pray that You will calm the heart of this sister so she may hear Your voice.

Do not allow us to fall back on our human emotions as they can be misleading. Teach this sister to trust only in Your Holy Word and not to look into herself and spiral even deeper into this pit of confusion. LORD, comfort her with Your promises and fill her mind with wisdom and clarity so she may better discern Your plan for her.

Father, heal this sister's heart and mind, let her realise her responsibilities and let her do them faithfully. For we know that it is not our actions and wilfulness that accomplishes the deed, but You and Your finished work that gives us the Victory.

I pray all this in Jesus name,

Amen

Love, and it's cousins, make people stupid.

Ok now that I've been blunt let me elaborate.

The angst and hurt expressed in your letter do not say love... they cry out hormonal impulses that drive us humans absolutely insane. I don't recall anywhere in Paul's treatise on love the words angst and turmoil and pain. Let's look at that:

1 Corinthians 13:4-7New International Version (NIV)[SUP]4 [/SUP]Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. [SUP]5 [/SUP]It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. [SUP]6 [/SUP]Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. [SUP]7 [/SUP]It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Nope. No angst, no turmoil. Love is supposed to bring peace. And you exhibit everything but peace.

The cornerstone of love is faith. Faith starts with God. If God intends the two of you to be together, then there is no need for the turmoil, right? In fact if that were the case, the harder you strain at the gnat the worse you can make it, right? So give it over to Him then go about your way. To paraphrase a saying, if you love something give it to God. If He gives it back to you it's yours forever. If He doesn't, it wasn't meant to be.

Give God time to work in him. I know in these situations everything seems so desperate and immediate. But God's timing is rarely immediate. That's why they call it growth, and not eruption.

Lord God, bring Your love, and Your peace to this situation. Quell the human and grow the spirit, that in Your time all things will work out as You intend them. Grant patience and perseverance to Amy, and send help to where it is needed when it is needed. Silence her flesh, and speak the words of Paul to her heart, that she may handle this thru Your peaceful love and not her anguished flesh. Amen

Praying for you all

God bless

Amen

Praying for your peace no matter what happens. God is with you.

Amy - God has a destiny for you to fulfill. That must take precedence in your life. If it is to include this man, it will be so. If not, it won't. There is so much more to your life than a person who you think will fulfill it. It is about the way in which Christ has called you to glorify Him. You, as a Christian, have given your life to Him to plan for.

Now just trust. Let God's hand fashion your days and I believe that if you do, you will have much more joy and peace than you could ever imagine. You will be fulfilled in ways that will surprise you.

Having said that, I pray for this man to be healed and that his life will also find its purpose in you. For Amy, bring her rest and comfort from her anxieties. May every need she has emotionally and spiritually be met by you.

Dear amydoodles,

You need Peace. And ,you need order, for you and your daughter. If you desire this you need to:

1. Put God first. Submit to him each day, all day. (Get to know him---talk to him and learn his Word---so you will understand his nature. He wants to give you an abundant life full of His Peace.)
2. Secondly, (since you don't have a husband,) focus on your child. Put her even before yourself.

These two things will bring your family into order. Don't worry about what comes after these two things. For now, these two things are all you need to focus on because they are enough for you to deal with at this point.

Your brother in Christ,
Joseph

p.s.: As far as the guy, keep praying for his relationship with God while you focus on your and your daughters lives. Remember, put God first, the rest he will sort out for you in his perfect timing.