demonic soul tie

Hi all. I am having a very difficult issue regarding an unhealthy soul tie to a past relationship I had around 13 years ago. When I hear her name, see her face, or anything that reminds me of her, I get blasted with anxiety, racing heartbeat, and shortness of breath. I have had dreams about her (nothing sexual just her presence) and when I wake up I feel like going insane! I pray and pray to rid myself of this but it's not completely gone. Granted, we did sleep together and were very young so I am sure that's the origin of the tie. She is not the only person I have been with but this force with her versus others is extremely powerful and painful. I have recommitted myself to Christ and vowed to never sleep, or engage in any sexual activity, with another woman until after marriage. I know any woman reading this probably thinks I am full of it but I have endured so much pain because of my mistakes, that I am dead serious.

I ask that you pray for me and if you are going through, or have gone through, something like this please share your story with me. Thanks so much and God Bless.

there is no such thing as a "soul tie" between people.. It sounds more like you're rather still infatuated with her.. ask God to rid your mind and heart of this girl once and for all.. and get rid of anything that reminds you of her, pictures, letters, gifts, etc.. Also,the title of this thread is false.. this is NOT a demonic force at work on you, it's merely a case of wanting someone back who you wish you still had..

Lord, Let this yoke be broken in Jesus name, and let chuck001 be set free, Let chuck001 be able lead a worthy and blessed life for your glory. Lord bless chuck001, in Jesus name, AMen

we must be careful in giving spiritual council lest we discount something that truly is spiritual in nature. Too many believers discount a supernatural war at their own peril. Ladybug gave good advice, part of destroying any ties is eliminating every thing she ever gave you including clothing. shirts... etc. get rid of it all.

prayed for you. God bless you as you seek His righteousness.

Bro try to focus on God's Word not entertain thoughts of her during the day. Our dreams are often affected and steeped with the content of our daily thoughts. When she comes into your mind, give her to God and place her into His hands. Pray for her, forgive her if you have anything against her, and then let it go and meditate on uplifting verses from God's Word. Forgiveness is very powerful! It is not just for another person, it breaks US free.

Prayer before sleep will help too. I believe this might be spiritual warfare as demons like to attack in dreams when we are weakest. Asking for God's holy angels to surround your bed... ask this every time before sleep... God will grant it... unless you invite trouble yourself with entertaining obsessive thoughts or grooming resentments, this creates the doorway for the demonic to disturb you, forgive her, and you will be free. Also get rid of her stuff for your witness to be true... let it go. God bless

Matthew 18:23-35

Ok, hmm. Just because you are forgiven and have repented does not mean your memories are wiped. You still have memories and consequences from your actions. I would find the verses about taking control of your thoughts. That will help.

I respectfully disagree. It is the two making one that establishes a spousal relationship. Marriage is the public confession of that relationship. You can undo the marriage but you're still spousal. That's a spiritual connection that never dies. Perhaps it is this spiritual tie that he is sensing and reacting to. I think he's doing the right thing, repenting of his past ways. That's the first step to breaking any spiritual afflictions brought on by sin... confess and repent. Uncurls them sticky little demon fingers quite nicely.

Ask the Lord to remove all the images, idols of that person from you and apply his blood to it and repent.

I agree with SoulWeaver, our battles are not against flesh and blood but against powers of wickedness... which by the way Jesus defeated on the Cross. \/ Hallelujah!

Love is the opposite of fear. Anxiety is the opposite of peace. Jesus gives us His power of love and a sound mind. Anything that attempts to rob you of that you must overcome with the truth of God's Word. Jesus said on the Cross, "It is finished." Find out what that means. Search the Word and ask the Father to reveal the truth of this matter. He will certainly answer you.

Let me ask you this, if I tell you NOT to think about a purple rabbit, what are you thinking about right now? It's natural to focus on what is brought to mind. Soooo... you need to renew your mind with the truth. First of all, Jesus broke every chain of sin and death at the Cross. Do you believe that? It doesn't matter whether you do or not, really. Jesus broke every chain of sin and death and that's the truth. So you MAY AS WELL believe it. Understand?

I used to teach my kids when they were little about the truth in this way: If you go outside when it's pouring rain and say to the clouds, "I don't believe in rain!", you are going to get wet anyway. So you may as well take your umbrella. LOL But do you see what I mean?

You are believing that you are tied to something from which Jesus has set you free. You are not tied to anyone. You've turned away, you confessed it wasn't a good situation, you are now looking to the Lord for direction. Nevertheless, your emotions and thoughts remember and make you think or feel you're still back there under her influence. But you are not.

I recommend good godly counseling as there is such safety and peace in the midst of excellent wisdom. Young brother Chuck, I pray in Jesus' name the Lord lead you to a few godly people whom you can talk to openly and gain insight and rest. Talk to the Lord about e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g as a son with his loving Father, listen to His Voice, rest in His grace and great love. Please know you walk totally forgiven so cast guilt and shame and regret to the Cross for Jesus to dispose of forever.

And see yourself whole, renewed, loved by God, complete in Jesus. You may find fellowship and support here online as well. But also seek face-to-face good counseling in your area. Blessings of grace to you, Brother Chuck!

Praying for you in Jesus's name.

God bless
pickles

I don't think he was married to her..they just dated for awhile.. once again that's not a soul tie..

No but it's not the marriage that creates the soul tie. It's the two making one, and that they did. Marriage is irrelevant in this case.