Man our God is so great. It's really amazing how He works in us to bring us to truth. I have only been regenerated for right at 18 months now, and was delivered from my own porn addiction overnight by His power. I never thought of porn as "bad" at all before. The men & women made the decision to make these videos, and no one was getting hurt, and it’s not like I’m cheating, or so I told myself. The day after I was reborn I tried to pull up some porn to watch, but ALL I could think about were the points in this video. "What lead this girl to have to make money like this?, How would her parents feel about her doing this?”, and the biggest on in my opinion was “What does she tell her children in the future if they ever happen across mommy's movies?". I turned it off that day, and by His power and ALL glory to Him, I haven't partook in it since then.
Roxxy in my case it took God changing me via rebirth for my addiction to be broken, I never thought of porn as wrong before. That is likely still the way he looks at it as well, you seem to have not felt this way about it before, and only feel different now because of Gods Spirit indwelt in you, something he probably doesn't have yet so may have trouble understanding this sudden change in you. Even more frustrating is you can't make him accept Jesus. My only suggestion is to talk to him and explain what's going on in you right now. Just take it slow and easy and try to be patient with him. I will pray God gives both of you the wisdom you need to come to a common understanding, and that God works through you to point him to God as well. Thanks for sharing sister, I hope it goes well.