I want my husband back! Need prayer warriors

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I feel so lost right now. I am currently at my fathers place as of now. I left my husband a month ago in hoping he would open up his eyes to what he had, as he was always taking off drinking and doing drugs, and most probably having affairs, he was abusive mentally, verbally and physically, I know he wasn't perfect, but he was and is my husband someone I made vows with, even though he has done me wrong in so many ways I still love him, I want him back I want to make our marriage work, I know it can if alcohol wasn't involved, please pray for Jesus to break the strong holds of addictions in his life, and lust, and any other temptation that would hinder him and our marriage, even the words and encouragement of the world for him not to listen to him, for god to put a conviction on him and his behaviours. I just want my family back!!!!!
 
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Girl, keep praying for your husband. God can do anything and can help anyone overcome something. I pray that God will touch his heart and that he will listen and can overcome this. If your heart tells you to be a praying wife then don't give up!!! My husband left me and a year later God still touched my heart to fight for my marriage. There might be people that will sit here and tell you to move on, but you follow your heart. Don't give up!!!! God is greater!!! Im praying for you!!! Im here if you need to talk!
 
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Thanks so much it's been so hard especially since I'm 8 months pregnant
 

blue_ladybug

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since you suspect he's having affairs, I'd suggest getting yourself checked for any STD's...
 

SoulWeaver

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It took 3 years for my husband to be delivered of alcoholism and he is sober now. Dont give up praying, but also be patient because it might not come overnight.
Does he have alcoholism and drug abuse history in the family? This is important to know as we could be dealing with generational spirit. Are you both saved?
God, you know and I know in part how this woman is hurting. In her labors, when she is supposed to have support, he is somewhere drinking and seeking his own pleasure! God remind him what a husband should do and be for his family. A provider and a protector not a homewrecker. Draw near to him so he may understand what he is doing and not do this anymore. Draw near to her and comfort her in her pain. amen
 

levi85

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Lord change the persons heart. Let them forgive one another and lead a beautiful life seeing you. Lord we pray together for this couple bless them. In Jesus name, Amen!
 
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Yes there is history of alcohol abuse in his family history, and yes we are both saved
 
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Yes there is a history of alcohol abuse in his family and we are both saved
 

KBond

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Lord, I pray for Jessicasinclair to have a supernatural peace at this time as You work all things together for her good. I pray You would break this alcohol and drug addiction and restore this family to wholeness. Thank You, Lord. In Christ's Name, Amen.
 

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Praying for God to work a miracle in your life. It sounds as if you have a lot on your plate dealing with the way your husband is.

As you are at your father's place take your time to rest and relax for awhile longer. I would not go back to your husband as long as the addictions are still fully in control over him. He has to want the marriage to work too. Perhaps God will convict him on this. Either way I believe that God will deliver you from the torment of the behavior of your husband towards you.

There are a lot of people on this site willing to listen to you and offer you comfort and counsel. Welcome to CC.
 

SoulWeaver

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Yes there is history of alcohol abuse in his family history, and yes we are both saved
This is very good news that he is saved! There is a good hope in this!

Now, in Jesus' name we pray. Jesus, we ask Your help and support against these evil spirits that have taken hold of Your lost child and brought him into bondage. Bring this sheep back to the fold! Restore him to be a worthy son and a leader and protector in his house again. We claim the blood of Jesus over all the errors of his ancestors, Lord. Purge them from him, and make him turn away from his own ways. He was born again, a new creature in You and the darkness has no rights to claim upon him, the son of his fleshly parents is dead and Your son is living instead through the baptism of burial and resurrection. Restore him from where he stumbled and open his eyes and heart so he can be healed. Give him the gift of repentance, so he can see. Let him return to his first love, let him love You and his wife and children, not the bottle. Send Your holy angels to fight for him with these devils that have temporarily taken hold and all their minions... God, have no mercy to these demons that afflict him and his family! Bind them alltogether and cast them into the pit to await judgment! Contend with his heart, God, until he is broken with repentance. AMEN in JESUS' holy and mighty name!
 
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Brownies

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I find myself in the a similar situation. Physically here, but mentally gone. rather than praying for your husband's return, I will pray for your peace in whatever is His will. That's also my prayer for myself.
 

pickles

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You, your husband and all you ask are in my daily prayers in Jesus.

Hugs and God bless
pickles
 
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my husband came back thank you Jesus and everyone for your prayers I know it's still a long road to recover our marriage as I still need prayers for restoration for our marriage but I am happy god is one faithful god!!!!!!
 

SoulWeaver

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WOOHOO!!! YESSSS!!
Yes GOD is so quick to hear us - praise Him!
2 Samuel 22:7 In my distress I called upon the LORD, and cried to my God: and he did hear my voice out of his temple, and my cry did enter into his ears.

Be prepared that these demons might put up a fight (LORD, we are asking You to dispatch your strongest angels to battle them on our sister's behalf! Thank you God!). But the very fact that he has come in repentance, means that God is hearing you, and working. Be comforted with that and rest in God and His schedule, even if things dont go as you expect them. Do not put up with any abuse, gently remove yourself out of access for such as necessary. God bless you and I'm praying that his journey will go only upwards from now on.
 
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popeye

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Wow what a blessing to read through this and see a wonderful "ending" er,uh beginning
 
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skylove7

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I pray for you and God help your husband. I hope he turns to God and changes his ways, but if he abuses you that's dangerous to the baby, and that's just not good! But I pray he changes, in Gods Holy name amen. If he doesn't stop abuse, get help...he could hurt the baby, but we pray for you.amen
 
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Things are not going so well, he is once again back on Facebook chasing after women it hurts so much I don't know what to do anymore
 
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Help her God (and her husband) to proceed to the best goal.
 
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I want to keep my marriage so bad but he's making it so difficult on me, Facebook is getting in the way and all these women, idk what I'm suppose to do anymore