Prayer for Turnaround

Hello all. This is my first time in this forum and wanted to ask all for some prayer. I was in a 14yr relationship that ended suddenly due to infidelity. I shared 2 children with the man that was unfaithful to me. He left us & moved in with this woman breaking up our home and devastating not only me but our children. Since all this has happened I have found it very difficult to get thru it. I'm full of anger & bitterness & most of all pain. I question myself everyday. Was it me? What did I do? I pray that God help me thru this. I feel so full of hate towards him and towards the other woman who says she is a Christian woman but I am trying to gain wisdom here. How can a person say they follow the lord but do the deeds of the devil. Because I'm sure adultery is not something of God. However I need prayer as you can see. I try everyday to be better but I can't get past what was done to me. I ask God everyday to please take these feelings of resentment out of my heart because all it is doing is making me miserable. I want my family whole again. I want to understand why this is happening to me. I want & pray that God turn this around for me. I don't know what else to do & I know the only person who can fix this is God.

You are right - the only one that can fix your situation is God. From you post I am surmising that this was not a married relationship that you were in. That still is no excuse for the infidelity.

I don't see how the other woman can claim to be a Christian woman and yet break up your family. I am sure that you are in a world of hurt right now with your whole world crashing down around you. I believe that it would help you greatly if there was someone that you could talk to that you trust. It is a horrible thing that has happen to you and I have said a prayer for you.

Welcome to CC.

Thank you so much @tourist. No we were not married although I had wished we were after all these years. I have spoken with my church pastor. He is working with me helping to guide me through this. Some days are more difficult than others but I thank those that help motivate me in my daily life. Thank you for the prayer

Lord please gather what is now scattered. Bless everyone and bless lifeisablessing 321 in Jesus name, Amen!

Amen! Thank u

You may have lost a mate. May you gain drawing closer to the Lord as you walk through the valley shadow of death. His rod and staff will comfort you. Your cup will overflow. Forgive those who has trespass over you. The enemy walks around like a roaring lion waiting to devour. The victory has been won. You shall crush the enemy with your heel. Angels shall surround you and protect you. The Comforter will guide you.

I'm so sorry you got to experience being cheated on. Let me just encourage you and tell you this, NOBODY ever did nothing to deserve being cheated on! Even if there was any problem and even if you did something wrong, he should have requested going into counselling or having a serious talk together and working on it with you, not chasing other women! It's not uncommon that women present themselves as Christian and yet chase your husband. It has happened to me, she knew us both and chatted with him contianually but since we engaged she always ignored me, lol. I understood this because he would always tell me, hey guess what I heard from our sister, and show the convo to me lol... when he found out that she never considered me since we engaged, not even congratulations which was really rude, he blocked her...

I believe you're better off without an unfaithful man who didnt really have in his heart to commit to you as you deserve. You're a precious daughter of God and God's standard is eternal promise of love given to you, no less. It is only bad because of the children - I am praying that God will pour wise counsel into the mouths of Christians around you.

Praying that God will guide you and help you pass through this difficult time. Also that your and your childrens' relationship with God will grow stronger now. Praying for healing of the wounds, restoration and peace. amen

Thank you so much soul weaver for both your words & prayers.

Dearest Lifeisablessing321,

My Heart and Prayers goes out to you Dear. May our God give You Healing,Understanding, Strentgh, Courage you need to deal with what is you need to. You Are On the Right path When you have the knowledge that Only God can fix this. Perhaps look up scriputre for the feelings you are feeling speak them out loud. Remeber that is written and the power that is in his word. God Bless you! Love& Prayers

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But adultery is what you've done with this man (I'm pretty sure the process of having children out of wedlock qualifies). Submitting yourself to the sin of adultery could be why you are suffering from adultery. I think the first step you should take is confessing and repenting of that, since you can't take the speck out of your man's eye while there's a log in yours. And I'm not saying this in condemnation or judgment, I'm just saying that in the spiritual realm what goes around comes around...