party pressure

please give a quick prayer for me, I'm sneaking out tonight with a man I know is no good for me but I just really am lonely and need to get out of this house and have some fun. Nervous about the cops because there's drinking and smoking going on at the abandoned mansion party we are going to, also I'm sixteen and most of the people going are 18 so there's that pressure on me again to not get caught since I still have to worry about my parents . Thanks so much, wish me luck . xo

Wish you luck? No and no. I'll pray you get caught.

I'm sorry but I'm not going to wish you luck. You know what you are doing is wrong. Why do it?
Sneaking out? A man who is no good? Drinking? Smoking? It's all bad news.
Why would any of us wish you luck?
I pray you don't get hurt and that this "no good man" doesn't hurt you in anyway.
Sorry.. But I hope you get caught. It's for your own good.

Lacey, why do you call yourself a "Christian" in your profile?

Are you a new creature in Christ? Do you really know Christ or did you just say the words? Do you live for Christ or do you live for your sin? Dishonoring your parents and sneaking out to party with an older man and doing all things ANTICHRIST is not honoring God. TRUE Conversion is POWERFUL. Has your fruit begun to change? Examine yourself.

I pray the Lords will in your life. I pray you quit living and thinking like the world while you say you are a christian. I pray that the Lord does whatever it takes to wake you up before it is too late! Amen!

[h=1]2 Corinthians 5:13-15[/h] [SUP]13 [/SUP]If it seems we are crazy, it is to bring glory to God. And if we are in our right minds, it is for your benefit. [SUP]14 [/SUP]Either way, Christ’s love controls us. Since we believe that Christ died for all, we also believe that we have all died to our old life. [SUP]15 [/SUP]He died for everyone so that those who receive his new life will no longer live for themselves. Instead, they will live for Christ, who died and was raised for them.


[h=1] 2 Corinthians 5:16-17
[/h] [SUP]16 [/SUP]So we have stopped evaluating others from a human point of view. At one time we thought of Christ merely from a human point of view. How differently we know him now! [SUP]17 [/SUP]This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun!

Ditto. Beat me to it.

Lacey, it sounds to me like you want to get caught and you went to
tell people how bad you may be feeling inside.

The thing about pushing your feelings to one side and trying to do
something to make you forget how bad you feel, is that it never
really works. You just feel worse later because you know deep down
that wasn't the answer. It is even possible that stupid mistakes will
cause even more difficulties later and you can get yourself into all
sorts of trouble.

Praying that you will have the courage to face up to what ever is
bothering you and that you will be able to confide in people around
you who will understand and can help you - that is people who are
responsible and don't cause additional problem for you.

Escapism, whether it's drugs, drink, partying etc, is never the solution hon.

x

wow .. yall sure know how to give tough love, so much negativity . I simply asked to wish me some luck tonight because if we don't get caught it will be a great summer night to remember, I realize why you guys disagree with me but I need some happiness in my life and tonight I'm planning on getting that, dancing and the other things that go along with partying may not be your style but I'm young and don't get to do this often so this is a good opportunity. Please stop judging me and instead just pray for my happiness if not specifically tonight. @Willie-t @ugly @pres19 @miri @blondeindahouse

1 Corinthians 10:21
You cannot drink the cup of the Lord and the cup of demons too; you cannot have a part in both the Lord's table and the table of demons.

"If we don't get caught"..."it'll be a great opportunity"??? and you're asking for people's blessing? It don't work like that...Help me out here.....I wanna rob a bank...it'll be a great opportunity ...if I don't get caught...and what a memory to tell my grandkids...I could be just like Jesse James!!!....Out of Love we will pray you make better thought out decisions and you ask the Lord for advice, regardless of your age.....you poor thing, don't go lookin' to men who will pay attention to you for the wrong reasons...that's a man who will mess up the rest of your life over what you may regard as..."one memorable night." Use logic and reason, rather than emotion.

Hey, you might even get yourself a baby. Such fun.

Young or not... it's wrong.
We aren't judging you. We're trying to make you understand that it is wrong and you can have fun without needing to do these things.
Trust me. One night of "fun" could lead to a life time of bad decisions. I understand you're young.
So am I. My night of "fun" turned me into a mother. I love my son to death but wish I had thought twice about my decision. I'm sorry for coming on strong but you need to see "fun" isn't always worth it. Please reconsider what you are going to do.
One day you'll understand why we are giving you tough love. I just pray you understand before you make a mistake. Please be careful. I know what parties are like at that age.

Father God, I pray that LaceyM seeks You for company when she is lonely. Please surround her with people her age who are also walking with Christ, to further ease her loneliness. Please send her some good, wholesome and legal fun to have with those people, and the creativity to make her own fun. Give her the patience in the meantime to wait for good fun outings, and the wisdom to stay away from places she shouldn't be and people she shouldn't be with. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen.

Lacey, I am not going to say this is right or wrong as many here have but what I will do is pray that you will grow and mature in the Lord and the Holy Spirit will correct you. May God Bless You and keep you safe as I don't want anything to happen to you.

I see a lifetime of bad choices and regrets in your future with that attitude.
You came to a Christian site to ask for luck (which doesn't exist) to go do illegal drugs, drink underage, with a guy who is a bad influence, at a party held in a place that's illegal to be, while lying to your parents. Breaking multiple laws. And you call US negative? And judgmental? You're purposefully and willing breaking laws, being disobedient and doing wrong but we are judgmental? We all know what's going through your head. And we all know why... And how bad this could be. Maybe it's not judgment but experience. Maybe you're the one lacking wisdom and discernment.

What if this was your last night to live? Would this be how you want to be remembered.... Oh, she was such a sweet and kind girl, but you know she snuck out with that guy, and they got into all kinds of trouble... Drank at the party and on the way home had a car wreck....she will never be the same.... Her parents loved her so and they tried to teach her the right way but she didn't listen... It is all really so sad.....

We don't know if this is our last day or not.... Think about what you are doing and the consequences of your actions. I pray you will make the right choice and as a 16 year old stay home where you belong... No luck needed...

THANK YOU for the prayer, have an amazing night . I appreciate you .

I think someone's lacking a daddy, if this is the case, you aren't going to get back at your dad for what you're doing...it'll will only be punishing yourself...God is your Father LaceyM...and he disciplines those he loves...you will see how much he loves you...soon...God bless

To be honest, part of me thinks and feels maybe she is trying to reach out..
Look at what she says. "A man who I know is no good for me" she knows what she is doing is wrong.
I believe in a way she is reaching out for help.
She is only 16. Maybe she doesn't really know God. Maybe she was just raised to know God is real but has never really understood? I'm not saying you're wrong but I don't think she really knows how bad this can be for her. At that age I sure didn't. Sometimes I still don't.