Stalker issues...please pray for me

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faithandlove

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I have done all I know to do including getting the police involved, but this guy thinks it's all a joke. He enjoys terrorizing me. I have told everyone I know about him, but I'm not sure if people believe me? Now I think he is trying to get a job at the place I work at, and that's just too much to bare. I will see if I can stop it by telling the HR dept that this guy has been stalking me since last year. I don't know how much good it will do, but I have to try.

Please keep me in your prayers.
 

mailmandan

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So sorry to hear about your trouble with this stalker. I will continue to lift you up in prayer to the Lord.
 
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faithandlove

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Bless you, brothers. The situation is really serious. Thank you for praying for me.
 
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ToBeWithHim

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Obviously will pray for you, but have you consider contacting the authority?
 

blue_ladybug

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I have done all I know to do including getting the police involved, but this guy thinks it's all a joke. He enjoys terrorizing me. I have told everyone I know about him, but I'm not sure if people believe me? Now I think he is trying to get a job at the place I work at, and that's just too much to bare. I will see if I can stop it by telling the HR dept that this guy has been stalking me since last year. I don't know how much good it will do, but I have to try.

Please keep me in your prayers.


Call the cops EVERY TIME he does something. Get a restraining order. Make sure your doors and windows and car are ALWAYS locked, even if you're home. Get one of those fake security cameras with flashing red light on it. Get motion sensor lights for your yard. Never ever be alone if you can help it. Tell HR about him, and tell them that if they hire him, then YOU are quitting.
 
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VioletReigns

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Bless you, brothers. The situation is really serious. Thank you for praying for me.
Faithful Father, please guide our dear sister to the right people in authority who will help her right now. Thank You for being her Refuge and Strength, Lord Jesus! Your Word says that You bear Your Holy Arm in protecting us. Praise You, Almighty Savior! Thank You!


Sister Faithandlove -

File a Protection from Abuse Order (Restraining Order) against him ASAP.

Information:

https://www.victimsofcrime.org/our-programs/stalking-resource-center/help-for-victims

National Stalking Helpline | Support and help for stalking victims

Advocates Against Family Violence - NATIONAL STALKING AWARENESS MONTH
 
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jkalyna

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Lawlessness, and Lust are very disturbing, and disgracefull. Since your a believer, you don't know this person, could have done this his entire life, and has stds. They say stalkers, are mentally ill. There are many things that could be done, email me, and I'll email you back, if you need to. The Lord Jesus Christ rebukes you foul spirit's of lust, go from her, in Jesus name, and we surround her with the anointing, the name, the power, and the cleansing blood of Jesus from all evil, for fear is evil, and those who inflict it, are possessed by it. The Lord will help you. I know he will, the sad part, is that in the end they will lose their freedom, for it is God's principals from his word, they shall reap what they are sowing, which is, he is taking your freedom, of feeling free away, and one day, it will return back on him, he will lose his freedom. The word of the Lord isn't mocked, and it accomplishes what was said, from the mouth of our God. Amen sister. Amen.
 
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butterfly712

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I'm so sorry to hear this,I will be praying for you,in Lord,Jesus name,Amen.
 
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iveseenworse

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faithnlove, this is crazy. Lord, i pray for fnl that you protect her from this person. that you give her safety and wisdom to avoid him. i pray you divinely call others to bring this to their attention to help her. thank you.
 

Joidevivre

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Lord, I pray for the safety of Faithnlove and for you to assign angelic protection around her at all times.

I also ask that for this man's intentions to be thwarted, and that you will change the desire of his heart so that it is not directed towards Faithnlove.

Amen.
 

levi85

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Lord keep faithandlove far away from this stalker and protect her. Lord give your knowledge and wisdom to deal with this situation. Lord bless her to be out of this problem and stay peacefully. In Jesus name, Amen!
 
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I have done all I know to do including getting the police involved, but this guy thinks it's all a joke. He enjoys terrorizing me. I have told everyone I know about him, but I'm not sure if people believe me? Now I think he is trying to get a job at the place I work at, and that's just too much to bare. I will see if I can stop it by telling the HR dept that this guy has been stalking me since last year. I don't know how much good it will do, but I have to try.

Please keep me in your prayers.
If you haven't already done so, get a restraining or protective order.
 
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faithandlove

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These posts are so dear. People have no idea what I've been through over the past year with this married man. Everything from defacing my car to "tracking" my every move, even finding out where I work and calling me there using and unidentified number and not saying anything. But once I pick up and anounce myself, he hangs up. I know that's him. I just don't have any proof. But I do keep track of the calls! Like I said, I have told everyone that I know of about him and have gotten the cops involved a couple of times, and yet he is not letting up! I really do hate to bother you all about this, but I literally don't know what else to do? As far as a restraining order is concerned, the police department won't issue me a free one on the grounds that I have a stalker, without some hard proof. This guy knows his stuff(I guess he's been arrested before) and so he isn't leaving any proof.

Thank you everyone, for praying for me.:)
 
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iveseenworse

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i feel compassion for your situation. i'll keep prayin'.
 
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Achara

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Hi faithandlove, as already been said..record every little detail. Speak with your boss, Keep calling the cops, protect yourself by not walking alone as much as possible. Try find out as much info about the man, without putting yourself at risk, if he's doing this now it's very likely he's done this to someone else. People like that will slip up, and when he does you'll have previous record to back it up. I will keep you in my prayers, I pray & I have faith that The Lord will protect you from harm, that he will work with this man to change his heart. The Lord God never sends us anything that we can't handle. Trust The Lord, he will end this mans stalking in how he sees fit.
 
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jkalyna

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Help for stalking

If you or someone you know is being stalked, callThe Stalking Resource Center National Center for Victims of Crime Helpline.

Phone: 800-FYI-CALL (800-394-2255), Monday through Friday, 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. EST.
TDD: 800-211-7996
Email: [email protected]

Here is a link and info. There's a vere in the bible that says exactly this, "There is a way that seems right unto a man, but that way leads him to a dead end, of death.
These people really will help you. They know how to catch them, and will tell you what you need to do. The police/government want to take such off the streets. They will be caught.
God is able.
 
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JeniBean

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Very Nice information jkalyna gave. Please reach out. I had the same experience in my 20's. Every one listened and simply really did nothing. It was so frustrating to say the least. I felt lost and confused. Sadly my stalker escalated, attacked me in a parking garage. To not, get in details I will say he was arrested and jailed then. Here is what I have learned and done since then. I now have a black belt, I am a concealed weapons carrier and I NO that GOD gave me the grace and power to realize that I can take control of the situation by protecting and arming myself with knowledge should another attacker ever approach. And they have. I will pray for you. But think of ways to protect yourself, because sadly no one takes this seriously until they actually attack you.
 
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You finally said the right thing. He is married. CALL HIS WIFE!
 
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LanceA

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In most states restraining orders are free. I think this should be your first step in stopping this guy. Once the restraining order is in place the district attorney will determine if criminal charges should be started on the individual. Contract your local district attorney and bypass law enforcement if they aren't helping you.