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bluesilence

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I have been super sad. The Christian guy I thought I had met turned out to be the opposite. I'm alone and pregnant with twins. 4 months now. I am struggling with my fears and thoughts. Asking why did I allow myself to be in this situation...God help me!! I'm so alone and scared.
 
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Jeans

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Hello. Sorry to hear about your situation.
 
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bluesilence

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I have been super sad. The Christian guy I thought I had met turned out to be the opposite. I'm alone and pregnant with twins. 4 months now. I am struggling with my fears and thoughts. Asking why did I allow myself to be in this situation...God help me!! I'm so alone and scared.
And I'll cry myself to sleep again....
 
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bluesilence

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Thanks Jeans.
 
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First Giving honor to my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ..Stay Encouraged! I know from the bottom of my heart that God will see you through.I'm praying for you. We all make mistakes.Dont be sad n stress because you have two little blessings of life in your belly.Im praying for you sis
 
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bluesilence

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I feel like I failed. I was 5 years abstinent. Sure if I waited I'd find the right person. I thought I had..but I was so wrong. He doesn't even seem to care. Now I have many struggles coming my way. I have very little support. All I keep thinking is why did I allow this to happen. God please forgive and help me.
 
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I can only imagine how you feel especially if the guy doesn't care.Take it one day at a time.God forgives you.Trust me God is not going to let those babies go without.All the times we have struggled n went through God has kept us Blessed us n provided for us n I thank him so much
If he did it then ik he will do it again.
I pray that our Heavenly Father mind your heart n lift you up.Realize that you are the Child of the king of kings n the lord of lords.
 

crossnote

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Bluesilence,


I have messed up plenty in my walk as well but here is a word for you that has given me hope...

The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.
(Lam 3:22-23)
 
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iveseenworse

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i'm sorry he doesn't care and that he wasn't mister right. sorry for your burden ahead and financial burden. i hope you have help. Lord, i pray for help, encouragement, reassurance that all fail sometimes. please send a servant to support. ty God.
 
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Here are some th㏌gs that might help,God loves you.

https://seekeroftruth712.wordpress.com/2012/05/01/here-are-some-things-that-might-help/


1) Grow ㏌ the love of the Lord and f㏌d help ㏌ the time of need,by search㏌g the scriptures,pray㏌g with believers,and rema㏌㏌g ㏌ God's will.

2) God’s plan cannot be thwarted.Job 42:1-2; Proverbs 21:30; Isaiah 8:10,13; Isaiah 14:27; Acts 23:16-22; Acts 23:11

3) Understand㏌g God's Will by study㏌g Jeremiah's Prison M㏌istry Jeremiah 32:1-44.
4) God uses every circu㎳tance for believers and unbelievers,to a㏄omplish his will.Prov.2:1-6; John 16:14-15; Isa.14:24-27; 2 Cor.4:3-4; Eph.2:1-2; Col.2:13; 1 Cor.2:14; John 8:31-47; John 2:25; Luke 22:1-2; Prov.16:4; Luke 4:13; Luke 22:3-5; Gen.37:18-20; Gen.37:25; Gen.37:26-27; Prov.19:21; Prov.16:9; Psalm 105: 11-15; Ex.34:23-24; John 7:30; John 8:20;Genesis 15:12-16;John 19:11;Acts 2:23;Ex.1:8-11; Prov 21:1; Ex.14:4,31; Josh.11:19-20; Isa.10:5-6; Isa.10:7; Isa.10:15; Genesis 39:21; Ezra 1:1; Neh.2:8; James 1:5; 1 Cor.2:15; Eph.1:17-19; Luke 22:31-32; Numbers 22:22-35

5) Bible verses on overcom㏌g uncerta㏌ty .Philippians 4:6-7; 1 Peter 5:7; Hebrews 11:6; Matthew 6:25-34; Psalm 121:3-8; Psalm 55:22; Hebrews 10:35

6) Pray for believers and persecuted Christia㎱ 1 Tim 2:1-4 Be ㏌ touch with the suffer㏌g believers,send them cards with your prayers ㏌ it,of hope and peace.People,who were misplaced,by persecution,should be helped by Christia㎱,and they ㏌ turn may help and pray for the people,who are still there.

7) Stay ㏌ the Word of God.

8)Seek ye first the k㏌gdom of God,and his righteousness(Great Commission)
 
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psychomom

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I have been super sad. The Christian guy I thought I had met turned out to be the opposite. I'm alone and pregnant with twins. 4 months now. I am struggling with my fears and thoughts. Asking why did I allow myself to be in this situation...God help me!! I'm so alone and scared.
all understandable :(

but listen to me, sweetie... you don't yet know the blessings you've been given.
children are a gift ( i have six of them :)).

right now you're overwhelmed, of course!
but if you are in Christ, you have His promise you're not alone. (Heb 13:5) :)

not saying it'll be easy, or always seem great... raising kids is tough.
but so, so worth it. honest.
do you have support from family and friends? if not, reach out to the community.

the Lord will not leave you destitute... He will help you.
and i am surely praying. ♥
 
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Standing

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I feel like I failed. I was 5 years abstinent. Sure if I waited I'd find the right person. I thought I had..but I was so wrong. He doesn't even seem to care. Now I have many struggles coming my way. I have very little support. All I keep thinking is why did I allow this to happen. God please forgive and help me.
Hi bluesilence.

We can say a prayer ay....
And lets try and let God turn your despair into joy.

I would like to talk just a bit, before we pray.

I have learnt, that when you meet a negative, (and these are your thoughts at the moment - negative), then it is best to turn that all around into a positive, using the fruits of the spirit.

Rather than thinking you have many struggles coming your way, try thinking that you will soon have 2 beautiful loving blessings coming your way. Because thats what they will be, 2 beautiful blessings from God, and He will help you to look after them.

And remember there is NO condemnation in Christ Jesus, and He will never leave you. Take heart and gain courage and strength from that.

I dont think you can call the gift of twins a failure at all. Wow, that will be amazing! And with God, you will be raising your babies into 2 more children of God :) How precious and special you and your babies are. Start loving them now, as Jesus loves you right now. You are His beloved, and so are your babies! Know this in your heart, and dont shut up your love, there are so many reasons right now, while you are growing your beautiful babies, for you to be full of love, so your babies grow in love - rather than failure. Grow them with the fertiliser of God, and that is LOVE. Love Love Love.

Heavenly Father. Hello :)
Father we lift up bluesilence to You.
Father we ask that you put Your hand into her life always Father, and the life of the 2 beautiful babies that are growing inside her - Your babies Father.
Thankyou for the gift that You have given to bluesilence. Thankyou Father. Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou.

Father we pray in Jesus name that you favour her and her babies with all the blessings of heaven, and that You will guide her steps, and give Your provision for Your plans for her future.
We pray for Your love ,and Your love for her growing baby twins to overwhelm her life, and that You keep them all safe, blessed, loved, and protected from all harm.
Thankyou that you will pour out Your love into their lives always. Always Always Alway.

Thankyou Father for hearing our prayer. And in complete and utter faith we leave this all in Your loving hands.
I love You Father. I love You . I love You.. I love You.
In Jesus name we pray.
Amen :)

God bless you and your babies indeed bluesilence! :)