Urgent prayer & advice

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humbled1

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God Bless
I'm pretty torn I've been praying for my husband & our marriage. I've been patient to give my husband the time he needs to figure out if he wants to be with me,but I feel the more time he spends in the guest room he becomes more distant. I'm trying to hear & understand what God wants me to do but I'm confused & not sure what to do. I pray for my marriage but not sure if divorce is the step to take. Please pray for us!
 
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greatkraw

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less is more

stop pressuring him

get out with your girlfriends and enjoy yourself

make yourself as unavailable as possible

stop doing things for him - including cooking

did you know that a group of guys cannot enjoy themselves?

I was a taxi driver - i saw this

the only groups having fun were
a all girls
b mixed groups
 
resurrection33

resurrection33

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I strongly urge you not to divorce him if he is being faithful to you.
 
pickles

pickles

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You both are in my prayers.
But please consider, distance, how does that help closeness?
After 28 yrs of work on a marriage , the one thing that matters is being close enough to talk.
Ill keep praying, you ask him to keep trying.
Hugs and God bless, pickles
 
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naomibelieves

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Seek God's guidance in your matter. You mentioned that you are torn, and do not know what's the next step.

I was in the same situation, but I was balming my husband for our problems, and torn. But God was so gracious to show me the things i have done wrong, and they were horrible horrible things. That very moment i knew that we can't divorce, i i did repent. So my advice is, and please do not get upset, do not look for a speck in your husband's eye,as you might be not noticing a log in yours.

God wants for marriages to last. If you want the same, try to win your husband by your conduct, if he does not listen to your words.

I can never advice you divorce. Our Heavenly Fathre in Jesus name and through Holy Spirit heal the humbled1 marriage and restore the love in her marriage.Teach humbled1 to recognize her sin and change her conduct to make her into the wife that her husband needs. Father, teach her husband the same. Teach him to communicate with humbled1 in a way she will understand him without getting upset and defending.Father! Save their marriage, come in their family relations, speak through to them, and tear down any walls between this two. In Jesus name, Amen.
 
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