pray to stop the loneliness

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cherrie76

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The majority of the time I feel okay, but sometime the loneliness is overpowering. I don't have much contact with anyone now, no one phones or calls in - there's my mother of course. the last year especially, has been the hardest - such a lonely pregnancy, even gave birth alone, feel so guilty that my sons birth wasn't celebrated by friends and family.

i left a very controlling ex over a year ago, iv'e apologized to friends for going back to him and i'm sure it wasn't nice for them to see everything that was happening but there is no interest now from them now. it would just be nice if someone would ask how i was, or what have you done today or how are the children........

Sometimes i feel like iv'e let my children down. If it wasn't for Jesus I would have gone back to my ex, or worse i would have lost my mind and my children in the process. So although I complaining about feeling lonely I'd rather this compared to what life was like with my ex. Iv'e never asked anyone to pray for me before.
 

tourist

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I will pray for you now for God to alleviate your loneliness and to give you a helping hand.
 
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VioletReigns

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I'm sorry you're hurting, dear sister Cherrie... but I gotta say something. PRAISE GOD THE LORD SHOWED YOU A WAY OUT OF THAT ABUSE!!!!!!!! \:D/

Wow, that's a huge step you made and a very brave one. And for you to state that you'd rather be lonely than to remain in the situation is such a statement of faith and courage. I am sooo happy for you and very proud of you! So many choose to remain in abuse because of fear of being alone. Bless God, you made the choice to trust the Lord and walk away from that. I'm rejoicing for you!!!! :)

Thank you God for giving this wonderful young woman a way out of that horrible abuse! We pray Lord that she continue to trust You! Let her trust safely in Your Holy Spirit still and seek out other women who can fellowship with her. Lead her to other young Christian mothers and let them be like iron sharpening iron, helping and encouraging each other. I pray her life be a living testimony and that her heart and mind be strengthened and renewed more & more each day in You.

We pray for her precious children, Lord that they would be surrounded with godly people and witness their dear mother growing in joy and grace and strength in You. Let their house be filled with peace & joy!! Help Cherrie and her children find awesome companionship among other mature Christians. Help Cherrie to reach out in faith to people in her church and let her life be restored better than she could have ever imagined. Bless her, God!! And thank You that You hear & answer our prayers. Thank You for loving Cherrie and keeping her safe from harm.

And thank you God for bringing our sister here with us that we can witness You moving in her life!! :D


 
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skylove7

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God bless you Cherrie.
We love you very much. I am so sorry you were abused. Your ex lost you Cheerie...but God received His beautiful daughter back in His arms.
I know you feel lonely Cherrie. But please do not go back to your ex. Realize you ARE beautiful. And you do NOT deserve to be hurt.

Cherrie your beautiful children love you so much. Putting your children first....is what is important.
You don't need friends out there if they are bad ones.
Besides...come join us here at CC if you get lonely. There are beautiful caring people here.
Please join us anytime.
You can PM me anytime too.

Try new hobbies
I am single...and I neve knew what talents in certain things I had...til I spent time alone.

Do not be sad.
I will pray for you.

Forget about that cruel ex
Find yourself again
Discover Cherrie all over again
And first and most
Give all your burdens to God

God can polish the spirit
Like a dusty diamond
Except...we shine brighter in love

God bless
Hold on
 

levi85

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Lord we pray for Cherrie76, let you pour your blessings, and let their be changes in the life, let god friends, and relatives, develop a good relationship to share, to talk, and to encourage, Lord bless Cherrie76, let their be joy and happiness, Let the loneliness be gone, in Jesus name, Amen!
 
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popeye

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So beautiful to see the concern for this sister.

I would add that nothing is wasted in a believer's life.
Are you born again?
 

pickles

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Huge hugs Cherrie,
As the child of an abusive father, I thank God every day that my mom had the courage to stand alone in raising us, I shudder to think what the outcome would have been if she had remained married to him.
I know she was very lonely many times and for some long times, but the rewards and blessings came over time to her in Jesus, and I know my and my brothers and sisters lives would have been much worse if she had not had the courage to do what was right and hold onto Jesus in faith.

Keep talking to and trusting Jesus to get you through each day, He will fill you with so many amazing blessings and remove the loneliness you are feeling.
you are in my daily prayers in Jesus, and may God bless you, your children and your livse overflowing. :)

Hugs and God bless
pickles
 
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cherrie76

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wow, i didn't expect any response. it felt a little bit like putting a message in a bottle and throwing it in the ocean. thank you all for your prays and advice it means so much. love to you all x
 
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VioletReigns

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Peace to you today, Sister Cherrie! Love to you, too in Christ Jesus! :)

 
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iveseenworse

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Lord, i pray You encourage Your daughter. tell her she is courageous, valuable, and precious to You. ty God.
 

Violet24

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Cherri.. Always know that you are never alone, as Jesus your Lord & Savior is with you, and He Loves You!!