Struggling so bad!

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Amanda6189

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I've already posted one thread a few days ago asking for prayer, but I'm hurting so bad right now I could really use prayers again. I've just gone through so much recently and I don't understand why God is putting me through so much all at once. My grandmother (who I was very close to) unexpectedly passed away, then my husband of 7 years left me because he wants to live "the single life" since we married so young, and now I am battling severe anxiety and depression. I am overwhelmed and so lost. I have prayed and prayed and prayed. I've begged God to help me through this storm but it's just getting worse. I love God with all my heart, I just don't know why He is having me go through this. I'm struggling. I can't eat or sleep. I can't function. I'm sick, lonely and scared. Not a good combination! The doctors put me on Prozac and the side effects are miserable, and not expected to subside for another 3-8 weeks!! Please help me. I hate asking for help, but I need you guys.
 
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Amanda6189 said:
I've already posted one thread a few days ago asking for prayer, but I'm hurting so bad right now I could really use prayers again. I've just gone through so much recently and I don't understand why God is putting me through so much all at once. My grandmother (who I was very close to) unexpectedly passed away, then my husband of 7 years left me because he wants to live "the single life" since we married so young, and now I am battling severe anxiety and depression. I am overwhelmed and so lost. I have prayed and prayed and prayed. I've begged God to help me through this storm but it's just getting worse. I love God with all my heart, I just don't know why He is having me go through this. I'm struggling. I can't eat or sleep. I can't function. I'm sick, lonely and scared. Not a good combination! The doctors put me on Prozac and the side effects are miserable, and not expected to subside for another 3-8 weeks!! Please help me. I hate asking for help, but I need you guys.
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never feel bad asking for help my friend:)
Please listen to this song real quick:)

[video]https://youtu.be/aJy_EOfdxhc[/video]
 
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Ugly

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It's easy to view things as 'happening to me' but not always accurate. Your grandmothers death isn't about you. It was about her. Yes, you were affected, as were many others, but it's not about you or happening to you. It happened to her. Sometimes a more balanced perspective helps.

In in regards to your husbands leaving you, that's not God's doing. A free willed human made a choice. God didn't cause it. God didn't put it on you, your husband did.

I've been through anxiety as well. It's tough. And my gf went through it way worse than I did. Having meds is only step one of two steps. The step that goes with it is counseling. Meds without counseling is like a bandaid on a broken arm.

Im just giving you some new views. I know things are tough and I hope they get better for you. There are some good prayer warriors here in the prayer request forums.
 
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From what you have gone through isn't any wonder that you're suffering depression. I understand about this full too well. God allows us to be put through trials to refine us so that we are better able to do the work that He plans for us. When you get married you give up the single life to become one flesh with your spouse. It is a shame that your husband feels the way that he does. I will say a prayer for God's will to be done in your life. I'm sorry that you're hurting but please know that you are not alone. God Bless You.
 
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I agree with Ugly's advice about counseling. The Word of God says: "In a multitude of counselors there is safety."

I praise God for the counselors who helped me through the difficult circumstances in my life.

Also, I'm praying for you, sister Amanda! Peace to you in Jesus! red_rose.png
 
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Amanda6189 said:
I've already posted one thread a few days ago asking for prayer, but I'm hurting so bad right now I could really use prayers again. I've just gone through so much recently and I don't understand why God is putting me through so much all at once. My grandmother (who I was very close to) unexpectedly passed away, then my husband of 7 years left me because he wants to live "the single life" since we married so young, and now I am battling severe anxiety and depression. I am overwhelmed and so lost. I have prayed and prayed and prayed. I've begged God to help me through this storm but it's just getting worse. I love God with all my heart, I just don't know why He is having me go through this. I'm struggling. I can't eat or sleep. I can't function. I'm sick, lonely and scared. Not a good combination! The doctors put me on Prozac and the side effects are miserable, and not expected to subside for another 3-8 weeks!! Please help me. I hate asking for help, but I need you guys.
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Dear Sister, dont give up to trust the Lord. You may not feel ore see it. You are His child. He will carry you through this tough time. I pray for you too.
 
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Lord be with Amanda6189, please help her out of these problems . Bless with your peace and guide her. Bless to live a life free of all these problems . Lord please bless Amanda6189 in Jesus name, Amen!
 
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I'm so sorry you have so much on this..
I dont know how it feels to be you but i'm praying for you.. I'm praying that God give you strength during this time, give you peace and comfort in your heart..
Dont get too focus on your problem it will hurt you more and more...
God has plan for you.. He loves you so much.. you're hurt now but He can heal you..
God bless you..
 
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Amanda, Just always know that you are never alone! Jesus is with you & He will give you the Strength to continue to move forward in life victoriously. One thing I have learned over the years in my journey through life with the Lord, is that strength & peace come through abiding in the Lord & His word daily, as this is where hope, peace, love & faith are born. Having Jesus as our Lord is Savior of course is the most important step, but to grow & find the strength when storms comes through abiding in the Lord. So, Lord I lift up Amanda to you in prayer & ask you to draw her close to you Lord. Calm the storms that are raging around her, & bring her strength & Peace. Remind Amanda to only focus on "today" as you Lord will meet her needs for today, and when morning comes, that's a New Day! to surrender to you. Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all your heart, And do not lean on your own understanding. 6In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He will make your paths straight.
 
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yes a changed perspective... what helps me when i feel attacked is remembering it's not about me. start serving God and my neighbor, i deserve nothing more, i am abundantly blessed already. i pray comfort and wisdom for you.
 
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bikerchaz

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You do not need us guys, you need to be in the presence of Jesus. His name really is above every name. Belive it Jesus is above depression, Jesus is above loneliness, Jesus is above hurt, both physical and emotional. Jesus name is above everything you can think of, all we guys can do is direct you, Jesus can do anything, and even more than we could think to ask him. Get by yourself where you will not be disturbed, go to the foot of the cross and stay there in your minds eye. Talk to Him, go to Him, with all your strength mind and soul get to that cross, your life depends on getting there and don't leave until you find His peace. Not your own, His peace.
Thank you for sharing your circumstances, God bless.
 
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Amanda6189 said:
I've already posted one thread a few days ago asking for prayer, but I'm hurting so bad right now I could really use prayers again. I've just gone through so much recently and I don't understand why God is putting me through so much all at once. My grandmother (who I was very close to) unexpectedly passed away, then my husband of 7 years left me because he wants to live "the single life" since we married so young, and now I am battling severe anxiety and depression. I am overwhelmed and so lost. I have prayed and prayed and prayed. I've begged God to help me through this storm but it's just getting worse. I love God with all my heart, I just don't know why He is having me go through this. I'm struggling. I can't eat or sleep. I can't function. I'm sick, lonely and scared. Not a good combination! The doctors put me on Prozac and the side effects are miserable, and not expected to subside for another 3-8 weeks!! Please help me. I hate asking for help, but I need you guys.
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I sense a lot of turmoil... sometimes we need to be still to hear and receive what God has for us.

Praying for you Amanda. Be still and hear the Lord your God.
 
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Be sure to fear the LORD and serve him faithfully with all your heart; consider what great things he has done for you.
 
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