Hi, I dont know why but I wanted to give me neighbour some magazines even though they are a large family I felt alittle shy. My fiance worries that I may be to kind and worries they will be drawn to my house all the time. However Im glad I did call at my neighbouir becasue janet said her son was going to war in afganistan soon and that she felt very worked up. I felt her upsetment, and she thanked me for the magazines. I just sense sometimes with people if they are down, I know I have to be careful not to be to over freindly also. But I thank God for giving me the insight of janets anquish for her youngest son going to war. His name is joe Benson, so I ask you to keep janet sane and keep her son safe from getting wounded or killed in action. Amen xx You just cannot judge people however intimidating they may seem, we all have hearts that get down at times.