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    I just got through a battle last year with the same temptation, feelings for a guy, ended up sleeping with him. God helped me out of it. I am being tested again with the same thing. Right now it's just talking but not about good things. I've asked God to help me again, I just need prayers and encouragement. I have an awesome husband who has no clue.
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    Lord bless LovingLife69 and be glorified , please bless. In Jesus name, Amen!
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    If you was plugged in to a spiritually healthy fellowship you could have accountability through praying and confessing your faults to sisters who love and care for you.

    Praying for your walk, God Bless you!
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    LovingLife69... Just know that no matter how far into sin one finds themselves, there is always a way out where Jesus is pointing the road back to Him & His love & mercy. Lord I lift up lovinglife to you in prayer & ask that you give her the inner strength to "take a stand" for the truth & not allow the enemy to bring deception into her life. Lord, you don't bring condemnation to anyone, as we are all sinners in need of a Savior. We have all fallen short of the Glory of God, but you are pleading with all those caught in sin, to take that stand in faith, and "fight the good fight of Faith in Jesus Christ. Lord show lovinglife, that your Mercies are New every morning & Great is your Faithfulness! Bring lovinglife to your word daily, as this is how we as Christians grow strong in our faith. Open the eyes of her spirit, to see all the beauty in life, with you Lord at the center. I lift up her marriage to you Lord, and pray that your will restore, rebuild & renew every area of their marriage. Lord, you are able to do abundantly above all that we ask or think. In Jesus name... James 1:14 But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust. 15Then when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when sin is accomplished, it brings forth death. 16Do not be deceived, my beloved brethren.…
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    Quote Originally Posted by LovingLife69 View Post
    I just got through a battle last year with the same temptation, feelings for a guy, ended up sleeping with him. God helped me out of it. I am being tested again with the same thing. Right now it's just talking but not about good things. I've asked God to help me again, I just need prayers and encouragement. I have an awesome husband who has no clue.
    It's not that hard. It's okay to let a bird fly into your brain, but don't give it permission to nest there. Let bad thoughts through, not to stay. Replace then with the little things you love about your husband, and then do things to let him know you're there for him.
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    i pray encouragement, strength, and wisdom.
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    are you still in this struggle? The first step is to identify why you are doing this? and then it needs to be cut off at the root. I am really not sure what the issue is so it it hard to know how to pray. Are you born again? The devil attacks us in certain areas of our life because he knows us better then we know ourselves. Is your husband born again.. What is happening to you is sent by the devil to destroy you and your family ..the Devil hates marriage. If you dont feel comfortable answering these questions here you can reach me at [email protected] There is an open doorway that is giving the enemy a invitation to attack you in this area. I have been here and my are of attack was lonliness..you can be free from this... you can be delivered..

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    Hi sounds like the enemie is seeking to draw you deeper and deeper into sin and since you fell with the other guy you willpower has been weakened and if your not careful you will fall into the same thing again.You marriage is in grave danger and whatever pleasure you experienced via these guys,belive me...it will only end in pain,loss,regret and your marriage could fall apart.
    You say even thought nothing's happened with this other person but you say the conversations aren't about good things which makes me think that your potentially playing with fire and even though if feels kinda nice..satan is deceiving you through all this and is after your marriage and your sanity.
    God doesn't want you to loose everything and he truly wants to set you free.I have been in situations myself like this and I have just cried out to god and was completely honest with him and he has delivered me from the wicked plans of the enemie.

    You say your husband is awesome?..well try to think how you would feel if this awesome husband founded out?How would you feel if this awesome husband looses respect for you and decides to leave you because he just cannot be with you anymore?How would you feel if this awesome husband was no longer in your life and you have to deal with the aftermath of in laws,friends and family members finding out what had happened?The pain,regret,shame!!!

    I get the sense that you really don't want to fall into sin again and want to be free,yet at the same time you're finding yourself slipping down this same party again and only you know what it feels like to be you at this time.I have seen this same patten before in the lives of others and this is clearly the work of the enemie,so it's not by chance that your finding yourself being tempted in this same area again.
    Even though you say your husband is awesome are you feeling fofilled in this marriage?..bored?..lacking intimacy ect..coz if you were feeling for filled ect in your marriage then you wouldn't fall in the first place!..Yet I know that a married woman can fall into sexual sin more easily if she is receiving something from outside her marriage ie affection,love,excitement,care..ect ect..which she perceives as not getting from the marriage.So what's the status quo?

    Please please think carefully about the long term impact of it all and not just the short term.Remember god and satan knows what's going on even if your husband doesn't and satan wants to destroy everything but god wants to prevent you from falling and save you marriage,your reputation among your friends and family ect.
    yet practically why don't you cut all ties with this person and cease to engage in conversation with them?(u may struggle with this)
    This person has been sent by the enemie and is being influenced by him and their only purpose it to tempt you and draw you into sexual sin which will become a trap for you!

    God understands what you're going through and wants to set you free and listens to your cry.I am sure you would rather not fall into sin again but be set free from the trap being laid before you.

    read John 8 1-11

    i will pray that god delivers you in Jesus name.

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    Hi Danny, it's not a wise idea to give out your private email publicly. There are many weirdos, pervs and predators here.. I'll ask a mod to remove it from your post, because you have effectively and literally just given the entire world your email. If you want to help the OP, you can PM her and give her your email.


    Quote Originally Posted by danny21215 View Post
    are you still in this struggle? The first step is to identify why you are doing this? and then it needs to be cut off at the root. I am really not sure what the issue is so it it hard to know how to pray. Are you born again? The devil attacks us in certain areas of our life because he knows us better then we know ourselves. Is your husband born again.. What is happening to you is sent by the devil to destroy you and your family ..the Devil hates marriage. If you dont feel comfortable answering these questions here you can reach me at There is an open doorway that is giving the enemy a invitation to attack you in this area. I have been here and my are of attack was lonliness..you can be free from this... you can be delivered..





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