I'm in a bad spot I don't know what to do.

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urivalle

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Hi everyone my name is uriel what can I say about myself I'm 24 years old I live with my beautiful gf who I love so much. We live together. Which hopefully it's not bad. I work 2 jobs so I can meet ends. But for right now I work one job cause my leg got messed up. I work part time right now which I only have money for rent. I just hope that something really good happen cause I don't want my car taking away. I pray to God to get me out in a bad situation. Everyday I try to be happy everyday as much as I pray is God even hearing me out. Is he ignore me is he even paying attention or is he giving me a lesson not to be doing things wrong. I try not to cry in front of my gf and tell her that I couldn't make any payment. I always have to put a happy face on so she know everything is ok but it's not. Now I don't know what to do sometime in think to myself why are we here in this plant facing this kind of stuff and going through bad things. I feel like I don't want to live anymore cause I know for in fact we don't have to worry about paying bills and getting sick and all this other stuff we worry about. I don't know what to do now.
 
blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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Firstly, you're living with your girlfriend, so I'm assuming you're also having sex. Premarital sex is a sin and so is living together before marriage. So, one of you needs to move out. Life sucks, that's a fact. Bad things happen. Get on the right path with God and your life will turn around.
 
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coby

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urivalle said:
Hi everyone my name is uriel what can I say about myself I'm 24 years old I live with my beautiful gf who I love so much. We live together. Which hopefully it's not bad. I work 2 jobs so I can meet ends. But for right now I work one job cause my leg got messed up. I work part time right now which I only have money for rent. I just hope that something really good happen cause I don't want my car taking away. I pray to God to get me out in a bad situation. Everyday I try to be happy everyday as much as I pray is God even hearing me out. Is he ignore me is he even paying attention or is he giving me a lesson not to be doing things wrong. I try not to cry in front of my gf and tell her that I couldn't make any payment. I always have to put a happy face on so she know everything is ok but it's not. Now I don't know what to do sometime in think to myself why are we here in this plant facing this kind of stuff and going through bad things. I feel like I don't want to live anymore cause I know for in fact we don't have to worry about paying bills and getting sick and all this other stuff we worry about. I don't know what to do now.
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I lived together with someone for a year and believed God approved of that. My kids got taken away. It was a disaster. I didn't understand. He didn't listen or answer my prayers anymore. At last I wondered if He even existed. I remember I heard a preaching then from a woman who lost her kids and she said: mis igos mis igos why why why? He said: because you turned your back on God. It made no sense to me. Made sense a year lager when I saw I had been living in fornication. Repented and got them back.
Let one move out or just marry and repent from that.
Does she work?
 
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urivalle

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Yes she work. And we both pay bills and split everything in half she help me out when I don't make ends meet. Or sometime in do that to we both help out each other.
 
levi85

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Lord we pray for Urivalle, please solve all the problems, and give your peace, and joy and bless, in this matter. yes help Urivalle, to walk in your ways, and let you be glorified, in Jesus mighty name, Amen!
 
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urivalle

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Thank you so much.
 
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urivalle said:
Hi everyone my name is uriel what can I say about myself I'm 24 years old I live with my beautiful gf who I love so much. We live together. Which hopefully it's not bad. I work 2 jobs so I can meet ends. But for right now I work one job cause my leg got messed up. I work part time right now which I only have money for rent. I just hope that something really good happen cause I don't want my car taking away. I pray to God to get me out in a bad situation. Everyday I try to be happy everyday as much as I pray is God even hearing me out. Is he ignore me is he even paying attention or is he giving me a lesson not to be doing things wrong. I try not to cry in front of my gf and tell her that I couldn't make any payment. I always have to put a happy face on so she know everything is ok but it's not. Now I don't know what to do sometime in think to myself why are we here in this plant facing this kind of stuff and going through bad things. I feel like I don't want to live anymore cause I know for in fact we don't have to worry about paying bills and getting sick and all this other stuff we worry about. I don't know what to do now.
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It's the other way around.

You're putting your happiness above all other things.
You're putting your car and finances above God and your girlfriend.
You aren't hearing God out.
You're not paying attention to God.
You don't even know why you're here yet.

Your girlfriend is good enough to shack up with to help pay bills, but not good enough to marry?

Yes! God is trying to tell you something.

"Trust God."

(You absolutely knew shacking up with your girlfriend was wrong or you wouldn't have written, "We live together. Which hopefully it's not bad.")
 
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pwrnJC

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Urivalle: First of all......who told you that you had to live with a woman and split the bills? Were you forced to do so, against your will? You have put yourself in the position that you are in..and now....you are asking for prayers and venting in a CHRISTIAN chat that you think GOD is giving you a lesson? lol lol lol hold on... let me laugh just a little more. This is like a chain smoker saying...."GOD, please don't let me get lung cancer or are YOU testing me here?". If I were you....I'd insist that GOD give you COMMON SENSE so that you wouldn't have to post your self made indulged problems here for others to comment upon. Hey, you may not like this reply...but when you post for the world to read... do NOT expect a "There, there, dearie...so sad that you are so unfortunate, going through such 'bad things"....here, have a lollipop and lets make it all better."
 
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coby

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urivalle said:
Yes she work. And we both pay bills and split everything in half she help me out when I don't make ends meet. Or sometime in do that to we both help out each other.
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Wow life is expensive in America. I have a parttime job and 3 kids, but I have a bike. Aren't there less expensive houses and why didn't you marry? You can just get a marriage paper, you don't have to throw a huge expensive party.
 
JosephsDreams

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Urilvale, I am going to pray for you and your GF, but not so much for finances. Dire as it may seem now, that will work itself out, one way or another, in time.
Lord, I pray that Urivale leg heals perfectly and quickly. I pray that you give insight and wisdom to his GF and him. I pray that they are both in alignment with your word and that they spend time praying together to seek your will. I pray they read your word together, aside from their private prayer and bible time.
I pray that their love for each other is the love you defined in your word, especially the sacrifice of our Lord, and 1 Cor. 13.
 
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iveseenworse

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i pray God speaks to you. i pray you listen. i pray God blesses you for listening.
 
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bikerchaz

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urivalle said:
Hi everyone my name is uriel what can I say about myself I'm 24 years old I live with my beautiful gf who I love so much. We live together. Which hopefully it's not bad. I work 2 jobs so I can meet ends. But for right now I work one job cause my leg got messed up. I work part time right now which I only have money for rent. I just hope that something really good happen cause I don't want my car taking away. I pray to God to get me out in a bad situation. Everyday I try to be happy everyday as much as I pray is God even hearing me out. Is he ignore me is he even paying attention or is he giving me a lesson not to be doing things wrong. I try not to cry in front of my gf and tell her that I couldn't make any payment. I always have to put a happy face on so she know everything is ok but it's not. Now I don't know what to do sometime in think to myself why are we here in this plant facing this kind of stuff and going through bad things. I feel like I don't want to live anymore cause I know for in fact we don't have to worry about paying bills and getting sick and all this other stuff we worry about. I don't know what to do now.
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Hi, In Jesus name. I know there will be a lot of people here who will offer advice, good advice or bad I will not comment, I will PM you though, but First on here I will have my say as well.

Jesus is all! Jesus is the first! Jesus is the last! Jesus is above all! Jesus is beneath all to support all! Jesus is the foundation! Jesus is life! Jesus is the provider! Jesus is the healer! Jesus is the life giver! I pray in Jesus name that you will read this thoughtfully and not skim read it.

You know in your heart of heart's where you should be, where you need to go and what you need to do. God gave his Son for you so you could know Him better.
know Him.
 
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