my fiance mother plays a large part on getting him so wound up with the things she says to him. like questioning him about getting his car licence etc, like she doesnt beleive in him. also she knows we have our name down near my parents for a bungalow, she always tries to put my fiance off etc. its terrible how she winds him up, i worry he will have another stroke with the stress of how she winds him up. she has been in our lives for years, and always rings up everyday, she doesnt give us a break. he wont live near her because of the way she makes him poorley. he had a bad upbringing and is still disturbed by this, not enough respect was shown to him and love. It making me poorley just seeing the way his mother winds him up, her has to be stress free after his stroke. I ask the lord once again for all this to stop and we get a fresh start.