Hi happy, it was probably a fore warning to help you understand and alert
you of his medical needs before hand.
The same thing happened with my aunt I had a dream which included
me coming down stairs and finding myself in a foyer with large glass
doors, I could hear dogs barking.
Not long after my aunt fell and fractured her shoulder, she went into rehab and it
was the place in my dream. She also suffered from delerium and kept talking about
dogs outside her room which frightened her.
I feel God had shown me beforehand what she was experiencing to help me understand.
She also got very confused generally and verbally aggressive due to the various medical
issues and it was very hard to see her like that. At one point she kept telling me she would
shoot me if she had a gun and do time for me.
Then she came out for 6 weeks, then got ill (it became apparent she had various medical
issues including that she had two very mild strokes which were never dealt with) so she then
ended up back in hosp for another 12 weeks. Then came back out it took another
2 months for things to start to calm down.
In all I would say it took 9 months to get over the worst. She is 81.
Maybe you could gently remind Rod that you have feelings too and you will
help him through this, but that he has to try to realise you have needs as well.
He almost needs to retrain his own thoughts and way of thinking, both in terms
of the medical aspect of the stroke and in respect of the emotional side of it.
Praying things will improve for you both. God does understand your situation.