Pregnancy scare

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Nickens55

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I'm sorry if this sounds blunt, I've grown up a Christian and have recently fallen into temptation with a girl. She is showing signs of pregnancy. I know this is horrible timing but I've chose to come back to god. Maybe praying that she's not pregnant is a bad idea because it might be gods plan I don't know but I know but I'm confused, what do I pray about? I've already repented my sins. Thank you and God bless
 
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renewed_hope

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You know it's okay to tell God all of this especially that you are not sure how to pray. I would personally pray for comfort, understanding, and direction in all of this. Give him all your worries and concern and he will give you peace. I will pray that God will put his loving arms around you and guide both of you through this....God bless you
 
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Rosesrock

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Nickens, Dude you just described my life 23 years ago. And any time is a perfect time to come to Christ.
To be completely honest, I was petrified. I was ashamed, sad and scared and that's what the girl is feeling too. I prayed there was no baby, I thought about throwing myself down stairs.....but in the end I was out of control and had to give it totally to him. You what? Everything turned out great....why? Cause I trusted Him.
I'm thankful the Lord keeps his promises to never leave nor forsake, so you have done what you needed to do.
Now there are consequence to sin and that might now outwardly come now but for now, you've done that only thing there was to do.
Stay close to the Lord. He will guide your steps.
 
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Depleted

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I'm sorry if this sounds blunt, I've grown up a Christian and have recently fallen into temptation with a girl. She is showing signs of pregnancy. I know this is horrible timing but I've chose to come back to god. Maybe praying that she's not pregnant is a bad idea because it might be gods plan I don't know but I know but I'm confused, what do I pray about? I've already repented my sins. Thank you and God bless
I'll pray this --
Lord, your will in all of this. Thank you for using even the bad things we did to your glory, and keep helping us to avoid more of them now and in the future. Amen.

Your prayer?
Sounds like you already started it. Prayer is talking to God. Let him know what you're thinking, feeling and doing, and then ask him to replace your will with his will. Repeat as often as is needed, and it's needed all the time, so keep at it.

You're scared. You're supposed to be. God will take you through this no matter what "through this" means. This is a big lesson in "Trust God." You're wondering how long the lesson will take. Even if she isn't pregnant, it's the same lesson for the rest of your life, so keep working at learning the lesson one area of your life after another.

(I was scared for three weeks once, and I'm the girl. Just so you know you're not the first to be scared with this one.)
 

Yet

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I'll pray.
 
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blueorchidjd

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Praying for your situation and God's peace for you both.
 
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Ugly

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#7
God's will is never that we sin. Having a baby outside of marriage is not God's will. Rather God can take that situation and work good out of your mistake.
 

blue_ladybug

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Pray for the strength to resist hopping in bed again, and if you do, remember to use protection. :/ I would also pray that she's NOT pregnant. There are already enough "oops" babies in this world.
 
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iveseenworse

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praying for the three of you.
 
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Pray for the strength to resist hopping in bed again, and if you do, remember to use protection. :/ I would also pray that she's NOT pregnant. There are already enough "oops" babies in this world.
Yeah, but some of my favorite people were oops babies.
 

levi85

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Jul 2, 2013
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Lord give your wisdom to Nickens55 and the girl, and keep them away from sin. Lord hold their hand and guide them, we bring this prayer request, let you hear and answer, not our will but your will be done, and no power of evil work. In Jesus mighty name, Amen!