Scary situation for me --- something bad happened to me last night.

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ManiaStar

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Something happened yesterday and I'm going in btwn, should I file a report or not against this one person. I am torn bc although what he did to me was very wrong, I did consider him a friend and now I mean, after what happened last night, I do not want to see or talk to him again bc he should've sopped the first time I asked him to stop but he didn't. I've never filed a report against anyone before....

He should've known better whether or not he was drunk. The entire situation last night made me extremely uncomfortable. I froze bc I really didn't know what to do.

I know my best friend is right. I should've gone to the police station last night and filed a report but I didn't bc I was scared. And I'm still scared but, I guess as w/ many other things in life, if you don't get a consequence for doing something wrong, then you'll continue doing it bc u may feel it isn't really wrong and continue trying to push the envelope right??


I could use some feedback asap and some prayer bc I need to get going to the police station soon. Like within the next 20 minutes or so I would think.
 
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ManiaStar said:
Something happened yesterday and I'm going in btwn, should I file a report or not against this one person. I am torn bc although what he did to me was very wrong, I did consider him a friend and now I mean, after what happened last night, I do not want to see or talk to him again bc he should've sopped the first time I asked him to stop but he didn't. I've never filed a report against anyone before....

He should've known better whether or not he was drunk. The entire situation last night made me extremely uncomfortable. I froze bc I really didn't know what to do.

I know my best friend is right. I should've gone to the police station last night and filed a report but I didn't bc I was scared. And I'm still scared but, I guess as w/ many other things in life, if you don't get a consequence for doing something wrong, then you'll continue doing it bc u may feel it isn't really wrong and continue trying to push the envelope right??


I could use some feedback asap and some prayer bc I need to get going to the police station soon. Like within the next 20 minutes or so I would think.
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there should be some kind of crime victims service nearby. sometimes it's nice to have a person from such a service with you when you talk to the police. our daughter works at a place like that, and she deals with all kinds of domestic violence but mostly rape crisis. your county's domestic violence center ought to be able to advise you.

praying for you now.
 
blue_ladybug

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ManiaStar said:
Something happened yesterday and I'm going in btwn, should I file a report or not against this one person. I am torn bc although what he did to me was very wrong, I did consider him a friend and now I mean, after what happened last night, I do not want to see or talk to him again bc he should've sopped the first time I asked him to stop but he didn't. I've never filed a report against anyone before....

He should've known better whether or not he was drunk. The entire situation last night made me extremely uncomfortable. I froze bc I really didn't know what to do.

I know my best friend is right. I should've gone to the police station last night and filed a report but I didn't bc I was scared. And I'm still scared but, I guess as w/ many other things in life, if you don't get a consequence for doing something wrong, then you'll continue doing it bc u may feel it isn't really wrong and continue trying to push the envelope right??


I could use some feedback asap and some prayer bc I need to get going to the police station soon. Like within the next 20 minutes or so I would think.
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Go to the police NOW and file a report and get this jerk arrested!! NO means NO.
 
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ManiaStar said:
Something happened yesterday and I'm going in btwn, should I file a report or not against this one person. I am torn bc although what he did to me was very wrong, I did consider him a friend and now I mean, after what happened last night, I do not want to see or talk to him again bc he should've sopped the first time I asked him to stop but he didn't. I've never filed a report against anyone before....

He should've known better whether or not he was drunk. The entire situation last night made me extremely uncomfortable. I froze bc I really didn't know what to do.

I know my best friend is right. I should've gone to the police station last night and filed a report but I didn't bc I was scared. And I'm still scared but, I guess as w/ many other things in life, if you don't get a consequence for doing something wrong, then you'll continue doing it bc u may feel it isn't really wrong and continue trying to push the envelope right??


I could use some feedback asap and some prayer bc I need to get going to the police station soon. Like within the next 20 minutes or so I would think.
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I've had that a few times. Never told the police or something. Just forgave them. Never stay alone with a guy somewhere.
 
blue_ladybug

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This isn't something to be taken lightly, Coby. The guy raped her, or tried to. That is a crime, and he SHOULD be locked up like the animal that he is. Get him thrown in prison first, THEN she can work on forgiving him. The guy is dangerous and needs to be taken off the street. And she didn't have reason to think he'd assault her, because they WERE good friends. The guy is a criminal and should suffer the consequences. This is why rapists get away with it, because so many women don't report it, out of fear or shame. I hope they nail his butt to the jail cell wall.
 
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I'm assuming rape or a beating. Probably rape. You need to go to the police NOW and let them do whatever they need to prove it. I have heard those kits are horrible to go through, but worth it to put someone down who does such a thing. If he's done it to you, you're probably not the first. If people keep letting it pass, then you are responsible for everyone else he does it to afterwards.
 
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Father God bless Maniastar, let you also bless with your knowledge and understanding, to deal with this friend, Lord bless Maniastar in this matter, and bless this person, in Jesus name, Amen!
 
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blue_ladybug said:
This isn't something to be taken lightly, Coby. The guy raped her, or tried to. That is a crime, and he SHOULD be locked up like the animal that he is. Get him thrown in prison first, THEN she can work on forgiving him. The guy is dangerous and needs to be taken off the street. And she didn't have reason to think he'd assault her, because they WERE good friends. The guy is a criminal and should suffer the consequences. This is why rapists get away with it, because so many women don't report it, out of fear or shame. I hope they nail his butt to the jail cell wall.
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Oh...I sincerely hope you went to the police... This happened to me constantly by a man and I didn't tell the police for years, and when I did- Well there was nothing they could do. It is sooooooo much better to report it I promise and it is what needs to be done
 
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