I'm feeling very low today and afraid. I feel So alone and like a nobody. I feel that my fiancé is very affected with his moods after his stroke. I feel he lives in the past a lot. He has sweats which worry me, I get scared because I just feel I will be on my own. My fiancé gets so worked up about what he has not got, and always put pressure on. He needs to calm down. I'm trying so hard. I don't want to feel this way.
I get scared
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Proverbs 27:9
Oil and perfume make the heart glad, and the sweetness of a friend comes from his earnest counsel.
1 Corinthians 1:
26 Brothers and sisters, think of what you were when you were called. Not many of you were wise by human standards; not many were influential; not many were of noble birth.
27 But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong.
Psalms 118:8
It is better to take refuge in the LORD than to trust in humans.
Proverbs 2:6
For the LORD gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.
Proverbs 19:8
The one who gets wisdom loves life; the one who cherishes understanding will soon prosper.
Proverbs 12:18
The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.
Proverbs 11:25
A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.
Proverbs 3:13
Blessed are those who find wisdom, those who gain understanding,
Proverbs 3:17
Her ways are pleasant ways, and all her paths are peace.
Proverbs 13:14
The teaching of the wise is a fountain of life, turning a person from the snares of death.
Proverbs 16:24
Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.
Proverbs 26:18 & 19
Like a maniac shooting flaming arrows of death
is one who deceives their neighbor and says, "I was only joking!"
1 Timothy 3:11
Women likewise must be serious, not slanderers, but temperate, faithful in all things.
Proverbs 18:2
A foolish person doesn't want to understand. He takes delight in saying only what he thinks.
A way of looking at Matthew 7:12
So in everything, do/say to others what you would have them do/say to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.
Oil and perfume make the heart glad, and the sweetness of a friend comes from his earnest counsel.
1 Corinthians 1:
26 Brothers and sisters, think of what you were when you were called. Not many of you were wise by human standards; not many were influential; not many were of noble birth.
27 But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong.
Psalms 118:8
It is better to take refuge in the LORD than to trust in humans.
Proverbs 2:6
For the LORD gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.
Proverbs 19:8
The one who gets wisdom loves life; the one who cherishes understanding will soon prosper.
Proverbs 12:18
The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.
Proverbs 11:25
A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.
Proverbs 3:13
Blessed are those who find wisdom, those who gain understanding,
Proverbs 3:17
Her ways are pleasant ways, and all her paths are peace.
Proverbs 13:14
The teaching of the wise is a fountain of life, turning a person from the snares of death.
Proverbs 16:24
Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.
Proverbs 26:18 & 19
Like a maniac shooting flaming arrows of death
is one who deceives their neighbor and says, "I was only joking!"
1 Timothy 3:11
Women likewise must be serious, not slanderers, but temperate, faithful in all things.
Proverbs 18:2
A foolish person doesn't want to understand. He takes delight in saying only what he thinks.
A way of looking at Matthew 7:12
So in everything, do/say to others what you would have them do/say to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.
Thanks for your message, its just how i felt today. sometimes my fiance doesnt always think right, its due to his brain damage with the stroke. he just bought a car which he doesnt like, and went in head first, now hes moaning about it, because the fuel consumption is bad. I know he can get very impulsive, usually sleep helps him. some days are better than others. Thanks again for your message.
Father God, I pray that her fiancé lets go of any and all bitterness and anger of the stroke. I pray that you open his eyes to the pain he is causing Happyface. I pray Lord that you bring healing to their spirits and minds. Lord, I pray that any physical problems resulting from the stroke be healed in your mighty name. Amen.
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Hi happy have you discussed these things with his doctors.
I just wondered because my elderly aunt had a visit from a physiologist
from the memory clinic which was arranged through our doctor.
She has had two very small bleeds on the brain, two very mild strokes.
The results showed she has a 15% reduced cognitive ability but she isn't
in the dementia stage. The tests were very interesting they test the memory,
reasoning, ability to understand, problem solving etc.
Its helped a lot to find this out as she can be very impulsive and strange.
For example I got home from work last week and someone had put a leaflet through
our door advertising landscape gardening services. She instantly wanted me to
ring them and get the entire garden done. It took me some time to convince her
we did not need block paving, fountains etc.
It has helped also because now I have a firm answer as to why she gets like this and I
can talk her around or I will say to her to leave things for a while before making decisions.
Then it all blows over.
It also helps when it comes to explaining her behaviour to others.
It may help both you and your fiancé to understand what is going on and discuss things
together etc, if you can get as much information as possible.
Praying for you, I know it's difficult make sure you have some time out, is there a local
church you can go to. You need to take care of you own physical and spiritual needs.
I just wondered because my elderly aunt had a visit from a physiologist
from the memory clinic which was arranged through our doctor.
She has had two very small bleeds on the brain, two very mild strokes.
The results showed she has a 15% reduced cognitive ability but she isn't
in the dementia stage. The tests were very interesting they test the memory,
reasoning, ability to understand, problem solving etc.
Its helped a lot to find this out as she can be very impulsive and strange.
For example I got home from work last week and someone had put a leaflet through
our door advertising landscape gardening services. She instantly wanted me to
ring them and get the entire garden done. It took me some time to convince her
we did not need block paving, fountains etc.
It has helped also because now I have a firm answer as to why she gets like this and I
can talk her around or I will say to her to leave things for a while before making decisions.
Then it all blows over.
It also helps when it comes to explaining her behaviour to others.
It may help both you and your fiancé to understand what is going on and discuss things
together etc, if you can get as much information as possible.
Praying for you, I know it's difficult make sure you have some time out, is there a local
church you can go to. You need to take care of you own physical and spiritual needs.