Keep praying for my fiance Rod

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happyface

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Today I realized how it's affected my fiancé Rod with his stroke. I ask God to help Rod with feeling poorly. I see it others don't. It breaks my heart. This brain of his can be tough for him. Its like I miss the old Rod. I ask God to intervene we are happy together, I feel so sorry I don't know what to do. I trying so hard to understand. Pray without ceasing
I wish God would heal him.
 

levi85

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Lord we pray for Rod, please touch and heal him. Let you please take care of him and bless. In Jesus name, Amen!
 

happyface

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Thank you for all your prayers. x
 

Pilkington

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Heavenly Father I pray for happyface and her fiance Rod, Lord we ask that Rod would continue to improve. Help them to live one day at a time and to trust you. Lord we also ask they would be able to come to terms with the changes that have happened and that they would be able to adapt. In the name of Jesus Amen
 

happyface

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Thank you so much I am learning to thank God for each day. I realise I get aliittle anxious. I just care. Thank you God for keeping in our lives. Amen
 

happyface

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I keep thinking I see things with life and cant fix them. I get so upset. I know none will understand but I try so hard to calm my fiance down, he looks really ill at times and sweats alot. The neighbours are driving him mad with their antics and loads of kids. since his stroke he likes quiet. I'm thinking he will become poorly. I worry about everything to do with his health. it's making me stressed. I know sometimes No matter how I pray I have to go through worry. I have to stay calm, but inside I'm unhappy at times. All I want is a quiet place to live and for Rods health to improve,. I needs God's love to stop Rod from getting stressed.
 

blue_ladybug

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Happy, you don't realize that Rod will never again be who and how he was, before the stroke. That part of his make-up is gone. Strokes affect the brain, how people think, act, walk, feel, etc.. I know it's difficult but you just need to support him the best you can. And get him to the hospital, if he's sweating and weak, then something is wrong and he may be getting ready to have another stroke..
 

happyface

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Happy, you don't realize that Rod will never again be who and how he was, before the stroke. That part of his make-up is gone. Strokes affect the brain, how people think, act, walk, feel, etc.. I know it's difficult but you just need to support him the best you can. And get him to the hospital, if he's sweating and weak, then something is wrong and he may be getting ready to have another stroke..
Thanks for your message, Rod is such a determined character and will carry on. Tonight he went upstairs for a sleep and was back down 30 mins later, he has now took the dog out. it's incredible the way he just carry's on, and he is so stubborn. He asks me questions yet he won't go to the docs. I will just support him the best I can. The determined nature of his can be very forward.
 

happyface

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Happy, you don't realize that Rod will never again be who and how he was, before the stroke. That part of his make-up is gone. Strokes affect the brain, how people think, act, walk, feel, etc.. I know it's difficult but you just need to support him the best you can. And get him to the hospital, if he's sweating and weak, then something is wrong and he may be getting ready to have another stroke..
I guess I'm just getting stressed because he wants to move so bad, it's a trouble area. I pray something comes up soon and the stress doesn't upset us to much. Rod never listens and I worry so much for his health when he gets mad. That determined nature along with the way the stroke has changed his thought pattern, I do get tired as I have bad feet and under active thyroid. But I know I'm being strong , I cant make him go to docs about his general health, so I can only do my best.