Abortion

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Meika

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Hello, I am a christain and my husband say his is too. I just found out I was pregnant. He told me I have to get an abortion. I told him I would abort him before I abort my child (meaning I will leave him not kill him) he has not come home for 2 days. He told me if I keep my child I would not come out of the hospital alive because I am disobeying him and because he feels like he is a powerful christain, God will punish me with death because I went against him. He said I am not pregnant because he already spirtiually aborted the child. He also said if I do have my child he will have nothing to do with it, he want even make knowlegde that it is his son or daughter, I am on my own. He act single anyways he only want to act married when we have sex or need money. Im so frustrated. I have been praying. I know God will fix this situation. Please pray for my marriage and turned it back to the time when we 1st met. This would be our1st child
 
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glenwood74

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That is horrifying! Why would he want to abort his child? What reasons has he given you?
 
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pickles

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My heart is with you. You are right to keep your child. But it sounds like your husband is confused about how we are to live as christians.
Do you have a pastor you can speak to about this? It would help to have a man of God that can council you both.
You are in my prayers as is your husband.
God bless, pickles
 
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HumbleSaint

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Sounds like your husband needs to be born again. Something that you will have to pray fervently for.

Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much. James 5:16
 
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QuestionTime

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Meika said:
Hello, I am a christain and my husband say his is too. I just found out I was pregnant. He told me I have to get an abortion. I told him I would abort him before I abort my child (meaning I will leave him not kill him) he has not come home for 2 days. He told me if I keep my child I would not come out of the hospital alive because I am disobeying him and because he feels like he is a powerful christain, God will punish me with death because I went against him. He said I am not pregnant because he already spirtiually aborted the child. He also said if I do have my child he will have nothing to do with it, he want even make knowlegde that it is his son or daughter, I am on my own. He act single anyways he only want to act married when we have sex or need money. Im so frustrated. I have been praying. I know God will fix this situation. Please pray for my marriage and turned it back to the time when we 1st met. This would be our1st child
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Meika you need to pack your bags and run as far away from this man as possible. That's God's answer to your prayer right now. Find a family member or good friend who will take you in.

This man is not a Christian. You need to get out of the house for the safety of both you and your child. I would even get the police involved if he makes any more threats.

Once you have been away from him for awhile, if he changes his ways you can consider moving back in with him. I'm not telling you to divorce him, I'm just telling you that right now it's not safe for you to be with him. You can worry about fixing your marriage after your baby is born.

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sunshine_debbie

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Wow, he doesnt sound very Christian like. Why would he want to kill you? Why doesnt he want a child? Will he discuss it with you or anything?

Dear Lord, please be with this woman who is suffering so. Please blanket her with your love and mercy and grace. Be with her through this difficult time. Keep her and her child safe. In Jesus name, AMEN

Debbie
 
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Dread_Zeppelin

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Someone who loves you will also want to love something you made together. I can understand not being too happy welcoming a child because of financial hardship but to put to death an innocent life is just absolutely satanic. He does not sound like he's walking in Christianity at all- just a cover for selfish motivations. I cannot imagine being married to a person who thinks that if something isn't done his way than God himself will punish you. Let me tell you something- God doesn't punish the innocent and he doesnt' adhere to men's demands they adhere to HIS.

I would get as far as possible from this manipulator. You need to tell him that he's either in you and your child's life or out of it. If he's willing to be in it then you both need marriage counciling ASAP. No man is to condemn his wife for any reason. You are to be loved, cared for, and charished like riches to your husband.
 
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Hesavdme

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I agree with all the previous posters...He sounds very manipulative. He needs prayer and I would suggest you have a separation as well. He sounds dangerous. There is no way God is going to punish you for keeping your child. What makes him think he is a powerful Christian?
"For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself." Galatians 6:3

I pray for the health and well being of you and your child and may God work in your husband's heart. Until something changes, just try to find a safe place for yourself so you can continue your pregnancy without the obvious emotional abuse and threats from this man. Continue to seek God. He is ABLE and WILLING to help you through this difficult time. God bless
 
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nanabean

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I really hesitated to post in this thread simply because I find what your saying your husband is saying/doing appalling! Also, I can only echo what others have said, and tell you I beleive you have every reason to fear for your safety and that of your baby as well. I don't say this lightly, because I am a true advocate of making a marriage work, but this just screams scarey to me. His being a christian or not is not even a point of contention right now, his head and heart are not "right" at this time. Please know there are others out here praying for you...and take the steps necessary to protect yourself and your baby.
 
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ShelleBelle76

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I can't say anything that hasn't already been said, but I can be just one more voice telling you the same thing. He can say all day long that he is a wonderful Christian, but if he is not exuding love, that is hogwash! Love is the basis of all things God. God is love! And it doesn't sound like he is acting in that way in the least. All I heard was hateful, spiteful, unreasonable and controlling. Having survived two violently abusive relationships, my heart hurts because I see how he is trying to control you and manipulate you. And he is using the one thing he thinks might get your attention... God. I fear for you and the safety of your child as well. Please get away from him. God never meant for a woman to stay in an abusive situation, whether it be physically, mentally, emotionally or otherwise.
 
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