i need your advice and your prayer

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gideon399

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Hi all

My name is Gideon

I Got a problem with me.
She decided to broke up with me and said. I want to focus on her study
Later i found out that she is in love with another guy who DOESNT EVEN LOVE HER BACK

I Really love her from the deepest of my Heart

Lets get back to to the beginning
Me and... lets say her name is Emely (fake name)
were a happy couple. she love me so much... she love Jesus too

but its all change now. she doesnt even love me. she is far from Jesus

Some of you may know Pastor Rick Warren
on one of his sermon. how we could hear the voice of GOD

Well i heard HIS voice once on the beginning on my relationship. He said that she is my soulmates
Some of my friend even said. me and her kinda look the same. she could be your soulsmate. blablbla
Well after we broke up now i heard it again. HE said "forget her" its broke me... but i say yes to it anyway because it was a request from God

At first when we broke up and found out she have another guy.. i break down i cried. i keep asking for god to make her come back to me.. but no answer. but then i realize.. if i keep doing this. it means i dont really love god. i dont really trust god. i cant even said.. God .Your will be done. because i was like. i need to be with her. you have to answer my prayer because i trust you!
well... it change now

I dont really Have a broken Heart now... i dont really worry or afraid of anything. i just let it go.. because i trust in God

Tonight i Heard it Again "Focus on Me. Pray for her to come back. But you need to trust me. and love Me more... more than you love her"

One thing.. I know GOD NEVER change his mind. im not sure if some of it .. just my feeling/word from the devil/or its really was God Speaking to me

i need you guys to help me.
Tell me what do you think. and i need your opinion

Thanks you
Jesus bless you

Note
"a friend tell me to focus on jesus. and keep praying"

sorry for my bad english
 

blue_ladybug

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Gideon, you have this thread in multiple forums already. The mods don't like it when we do that. That being said, you need to leave this girl alone. She doesn't love you, or Jesus and she has another bf. The voice you're hearing isn't God's voice. It's satan trying to get you to stay in misery over this girl. Stop thinking about the past and move on.
 

levi85

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Lord bless gideon399, in Jesus name, Amen!
 
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Ariel82

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Let the girl go and focus on God.
 

Silverwings

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Gideon~ this is a tough one, and my take on it would be to "Let go and Let God".
You can't loose if you do this. Turn her loose, completely, do not call her, nor try to have any communication whatsoever. Pray that if she is going to be heartache for you that Jesus would build a hedge between you. See what happens, if she comes back let it be on her completely, and if it should happen again .....Run!!
 
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gideon399

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Hehe im Really sorry about this... iam new to this forum so... i post it where i think its right...
i dont really know where to post

and thank you for your prayer and advice.. its really mean alot to me
 
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Silverwings

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Gideon~ welome to the forum!! I am new here too, and it is not always easy to know where to post, however, this one is for prayer and is posted in the prayer forum, so it is right on!! Not sure about the same posting elsewhere, I was not aware that is a no no either. Keep posting, we will get it figured out eventually. God Bless.
 
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iveseenworse

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your english is great i'm learning french its cool you want to learn a second language. love can be blissful or painful. serve God we have a jealous God. in the end there will be no marriage in heaven but i pray you find happiness here.
 

Silverwings

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But we are supposed to be married to the Lamb of God, that is what the Marriage Supper of the Lamb is all about. Christ joined to His wife for all eternity.

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[h=1]Revelation 19:6-9English Standard Version (ESV)[/h][h=3]The Marriage Supper of the Lamb[/h][FONT=&quot]6 Then I heard what seemed to be the voice of a great multitude, like the roar of many waters and like the sound of mighty peals of thunder, crying out,[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]“Hallelujah!
For the Lord our God
the Almighty reigns.
7 Let us rejoice and exult
and give him the glory,
for the marriage of the Lamb has come,
and his Bride has made herself ready;

8 it was granted her to clothe herself
with fine linen, bright and pure”—[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]for the fine linen is the righteous deeds of the saints.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]9 And the angel said[a] to me, “Write this: Blessed are those who are invited to the marriage supper of the Lamb.” And he said to me, “These are the true words of God.”[/FONT]




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Kaydee

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gideon399, I see on your profile that you are only sixteen. Both of you are still very young, growing, changing, learning about the world, and hopefully God's plan for your lives. I can tell you with certainty, teenage girls are notorious for changing their minds about who they love. You will no doubt love again, and may even get your heart broken again before you meet the one God intends for you. I told my sons, when they were in their teens, to not get in a hurry to get involved with a girl on a serious basis, to finish school, college, find a job, learn to be responsible for themselves, get some life experience before taking on responsibility for another person. Be friends, seek purity when dating. Please, don't chase this girl...if she is meant for you, God will bring her back into your life at the right time. Go out and let yourself grow up. Adulthood will come all too soon!!:)