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iraasuup

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Okay, I don't really even know where to start.

I guess life is just getting on top of us. My Husband (who is the most patient person I know) finally lost it tonight. Recently, I've noticed he has been getting easily frustrated.

Without going on and on, there have been some issues we have been dealing with, that have just been dragging out for months on end now. Every time we think they are resolved, they just get bigger. It's human nature to get frustrated when things don't work out, but we've been trying to do things as Jesus would have us do them, and respond in the right way. The more we do that, it seems, the more the world just walks all over us. He left me standing at the train station in the pouring rain tonight (after I had called him 10 mins earlier to let him know my arrival time), because he was overwhelmed...(long story)...

Tonight, my Husband got so frustrated he actually got angry. He stressed himself out to a state I've never seen him in before, and actually told me he is not happy in life and would rather not live.

I'm at a loss as to how to help him. The problems affect both of us, but there are just no simple answers to solve them, they are the kind of situations you find yourself in where regardless of the choice you make, you still lose out.

I guess I'm just asking for some prayer for my husband, to help him calm down a little, and also for his faith. He has been telling me for sometime now, (when things go wrong) that he wonders where God is in all of it? He thinks God isn't helping us (and it's not through lack of asking), I just think we need some clarity, and guidance.

I'm confused myself, and having him stressed out only stresses me out.

I have no idea if any of that make sense, but if you can please pray...you may not understand, but God does!
 
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calvina

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GOD is watching and knows your burden.we will pray for you..
 
zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

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I will pray for you and your hubby Katie.
 
pickles

pickles

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Sometimes its not about making sence, its just about letting God cover you.
It is not aways about the storm being removed, but knowing that in Jesus you can wether any storm.
You and your husband are in my prayers as long as you need.
Hugs and God bless, pickles
 
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Belgian_Pilot

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Dear Iraasuup,

You and your husband are in my prayers. It looks like you and your husband are wonderful persons. I'm certain that God loves both of you very much!

I heard once this blessing (in Dutch). It was like this (rough translation):

May God be before you, so He can show you the way.
May God be behind you, to protect you from evil attacks and sin.
May God be at your side, to be there as a Friend.
May God be underneath you, to catch you when you fall.
May God be above you with His peace and His blessing.

:)
 
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wwjd_kilden

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I will pray for you

*long hug*
 
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nanabean

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iraasuup.....God has all the information, we don't need it in order to pray. My heart goes out to you, as do my prayers.
 
cookie39

cookie39

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Lord God Almighty, God of heaven and earth, Holy Father we come to you in the Name of Christ Jesus, Father we bring this marriage to you. for you are the God of this marriage, as all. Father God we come to you asking that you come in a bring comfort as you bring understanding. Lord you are the head of the husband as he is the head of the wife but she is the crown on his head. Lord we ask you where confusion has come in we ask that you remove it and bring peace to each of them as well as the one of the as a whole. for Lord you said that they two has become one and in you there is a three fold cord. Lord we ask that where there is devision between them lord we ask you to remove it and place your Love and unity. for where a house that is against itself it can not stand, therefore; Lord we ask you to hold them together with your living Word. as they seek you Lord for your guidance let your Word be stirred up in them to bring life where death tried to come in, for she is bone of his bone and flesh of his flesh, Lord teach her as you have to be a wise wife who buildeth her house and never a foolish one who plunk it down with her bare hands, Lord give her patients, and wisdom, to be a help to her husband, Lord give her the words to cry out to you that she may catch him in the spirit and lift him all where he has fallen weak and want to faint. Lord you said two is better than one for when one fall there is another there to pick them up, and Lord teach him to do the same for her, and keep his heart for her and never against her, and for her to do the same for him. Father we ask you to help him dwell with her according to knowledge that his prayers be not hindered and his joy be full as your pour your favor on him which will flow down to her and their household. Lord bring your manifesting Glory into their home and be the one who rule and rein over this marriage. Lord bless this marriage that their Love for one another will be renewed every day of their lives. Lord we know you bring tials and tribulations to make us strong in you and to bring about your fruit in their lives as individuals as well as one as a whole; so we ask you Lord as you try them we ask that you strengthen them that their faith fail them not. Lord we ask that you put a sparkle in their eyes for you as for one another as if it was in the first days , and the fire in their hearts and never allow it to be quenched. Lord this marriage will come forth as it is,,, the like of the body of Christ, let the mystery of the church be revealed in this marriage. as Christ died and gave his self for the his bride so shall this husband do for his wife, and she being submitted to the order in which we are in you. let them be submitted one to another as he will be submitted to his own wife and she her own husband. Lord God our Father our redeemer, we ask you to never let her become a contincious woamn with nagging nor complaining, which you say is worse than a constant drip, and a man would rather be on the corner of a roof top them to be in the same house which such a woman. and for him Lord we ask that you keep his to see her as the weaker vessel and to love her as you love us and give himself for her daily.... let them be in harmony and oneness with you for all the days of their lives, fill daily with wisdom, knowledge, and understanding one for thee other, and toward you their God, to know you and continually walk in your ways, in your will, cover them in your grace, surround them in your mercy, close every door that will allow the enemy to come in and every place that been giving to the devil Lord God, we take it back right now in the Holy name of Christ Jesus. they will not let the thief come in to kill, steal or destroy this marriage, no not now nor not ever!!!! Lord stir up the Holy Ghost in the that they will come out fighting the devil and not one another... we rebuke all the works of the enemy and no weapon formed against them will not ! cna not ! and shall not prosper ! in the name of Christ Jesus. thank you Holy God, for loving them soo much you are already moving on their behalf, for this marriage is a living testamony unto you, that it is strong and cannot be moved from the foundation it was built on, which is you the LOrd their God through their faith in Jesus Christ, Son of the living God. Lord thank you hearing and answering all the prayers sent to you on their behalf,,,,, Glorify yourself in this marriage Father,,,,, Magnify your Holy Name as well as your Living Word....... IN THE NAME OF CHRIST JESUS DO WE PRAY,,,,,, AMEN ! AMEN !
 
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