Praying for Clarity, Discernment and Wisdom

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Psalm2323

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Please pray for me that I will have clarity, discernment and wisdom as I prepare for my husband of 15 years to leave our daughter and I. He said that God told him to leave his marriage and start a new relationship with another woman (who is also married but separated). He said he will never be in love with me again. But I can feel the Lord encouraging me to "Be still and know He is God". Which you imagine has been the most difficult thing to do. To be rejected from a man you committed to in the eyes of the Lord because they decided to leave the old behind is so very hurtful. I am so lonely all the time. I am trying really hard to refocus my whole life back to God. But I would be wrong and lying if I didn't say that I miss my husband so much. Please pray for me and my daughter. She is hurting. She said she feels as if she has no safe place anymore.
 
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bikerchaz

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Praying for you and your daughter. I know there are not words to describe how it goes and the hurt that is felt. Steep yourself in Jesus. You do know that God would not encourage anyone to commit adultery, so what your husband is hearing is not from God. I will pray for him as well, that he may understand before it is too late and while it is called today.

Hold fast sister, and trust in Jesus.
God bless.
 
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My heart goes out to you and your daughter. I agree that our Heavenly Father has no hand in this. He is obeying the god of this world that tells all to seek pleasure and happiness and serve self above all. I can't imagine the hurt and abandonment you feel. In this time of testing please turn to God alone for comfort and be a rock for your daughter. Little girls especially can be affected by such rejection and need to feel safe and accepted. Sometimes parents put undo stress on the little ones when they are hurting so be mindful not to add to her burden. I will pray that God gives you strength and healing. I know it may seem that life has lost all meaning and nothing will ever be the same. In some aspects you are right but it doesn't mean that there is no hope for a brighter future, maybe not the one you once imagined but still beautiful. I will also pray that bitterness does not overpower you and one day you can see that your husband is just a fallen man who believes the lies of the devil. It will be easy in a short time to replace the hurt with anger. This will serve no purpose except to harden your heart. I've heard of many times when God has brought marriages back together but often it relies on the faith of both partners. Naturally you will be stressed and strange things can happen to the body under stress. I know it may sound like odd advice but to not compound the suffering by adding weight and sickness eat lots of veggies and stay away from sugar. I could explain it but now isn't the time. Another trick that only works for women is listen to instrumental music in a dark room for five mins when stressed (it lowers cortisol) and find another woman to talk to (for women also lowers cortisol). I'm sorry for you loss.
 

levi85

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Father God let you bless psalm2323's faith, let her husband return and love her more than before, yes Lord. We pray for your divine intervention in this matter. You please take care of psalm2323 and her daughter, heal their hearts, wipe away their tears on eyes, also bless with clarity discernment and wisdom bless psalm2323 and her daughter, in Jesus name, Amen!
 

blue_ladybug

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Your husband is delusional and deceived if he truly thinks it's GOD that is telling him to leave his marriage. :/ For a married woman at that.. smh
 
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PRO. 5-6.

Trust in The Lord with all thy heart and lean not unto your own understanding,
in all your way acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths...
 
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Vane78

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Praying for you sis,I'm going thru something similar,and we also have a young daughter together.Let him go,but keep praying for him,and have your daughter,no matter how old pray for her daddy,that would draw you closer to God,and each other.The Lord couldn't have "told him to move on with another woman",you are the only one he belongs to,so as his wife you can pray for God to deliver him from adultery,and continue drawing closer,and closer to God,don't feel lonely....for YOU ARE NOT ALONE,you've the Lord,and your daughter,I pray the Lord strengthens you both,to be able not not have him living with you anymore.